(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1500]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
PW[aiijiifi]PB[Rowen]DT[2013-11-27]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[W+Resign]
;B[pn]BL[1492.974]
;W[dq]WL[1494.932]
;B[nd]BL[1486.738]
;W[ec]WL[1490.13]
;B[pi]BL[1482.915]
;W[pd]WL[1487.585]C[This move should be responded to. In the opening there are 5 main phases:

1. Taking corners
2. Enclosing and approaching corners
3. Playing large side moves
4. Playing small side moves
5. Moving toward the center

Sometimes these are played out of order but usually we want to respond to approaches]
(;B[gc]BL[1477.636]TR[cd]C[This approach is a little non-standard. Normally we approach a 5-3 stone from the inside at the 3-4]
;W[pg]WL[1482.688]C[Now white has time to strengthen the corner]
;B[do]BL[1471.936]TR[cd]C[This is okay, however I think pincering white's stone on top at the 3-4 might be better considering he didn't respond earlier]
;W[cm]WL[1479.178]C[Yilun Yang 7p has a saying about approach moves in the opening:

1 stone against 1 stone - okay to tenuki
2 stones against 1 stone - never tenuki
3 stones against 1 stone - always teunki

To tenuki is to play elsewhere - away from where you opponent played - so in this case you should respond.]
(;B[ng]BL[1465.701]
;W[oh]WL[1475.948]C[EdLee pointed out other sequences for this]
;B[oi]BL[1449.596]
;W[nh]WL[1473.123]
;B[mh]BL[1444.967]
;W[mi]WL[1460.362]
;B[ni]BL[1433.762]
;W[mg]WL[1456.869]
;B[lh]BL[1427.323]
;W[nf]WL[1453.746]
;B[og]BL[1423.307]
;W[of]WL[1450.97]
(;B[oc]BL[1412.477]C[This move doesn't really help your stone to make a base or connect to other stones. Instead, try to keep your stones connected and/or make a base for them near the side.]
;W[ld]WL[1445.23]TR[oc][nd]C[These stones are in trouble now that they are surrounded.]
;B[em]BL[1405.844]
;W[co]WL[1441.549]C[When your opponent attaches to you - touching your stone - respond. Unless you have a very good reason do not teunki from this.]
(;B[jp]BL[1397.69]
;W[pp]WL[1438.182]
(;B[mj]BL[1386.393]
;W[lg]WL[1427.911]
;B[li]BL[1383.639]C[Very good. No need to mess around.]
;W[nq]WL[1423.112]C[Notice how your opponent played where it would have been good for you to play. Your opponent's best move is often your best move.]
(;B[dd]BL[1379.535]C[This shoulder-hit (playing diagonal from white's stone) is generally not very good against weak stones. The white stone is weak here, so try not to touch it. Just play near it.]
;W[dc]WL[1419.897]
;B[qd]BL[1369.963]C[EdLee pointed out most of the problems here. I'll skip ahead to 69.]
;W[pc]WL[1412.419]
;B[pb]BL[1367.282]
;W[qc]WL[1410.392]
;B[rc]BL[1362.979]
;W[qb]WL[1407.008]
;B[qa]BL[1359.059]
;W[qe]WL[1402.274]
;B[rd]BL[1355.538]
;W[rb]WL[1396.306]
;B[sb]BL[1348.845]
;W[re]WL[1390.062]
;B[pe]BL[1346.033]
;W[oe]WL[1385.602]
;B[od]BL[1344.02]
;W[pf]WL[1379.19]
;B[ra]BL[1341.927]
;W[pe]WL[1374.289]
;B[dm]BL[1329.462]
;W[cl]WL[1366.994]
;B[ck]BL[1321.612]
;W[cn]WL[1361.787]
;B[hn]BL[1311.835]
;W[ed]WL[1353.036]
;B[de]BL[1307.167]
;W[ee]WL[1349.607]
;B[ef]BL[1304.419]
;W[df]WL[1344.849]
;B[eg]BL[1301.118]
;W[cf]WL[1341.838]
;B[ce]BL[1296.239]
;W[be]WL[1331.853]
;B[bd]BL[1292.749]
;W[cd]WL[1329.551]
;B[no]BL[1269.203]TR[li][ni][oi][pi][mj][hn][pn][no][jp]C[I like this move. I'm not sure if you can win from here, but this move works well. Look at the box you are making in the center. This was a good move - I think your best in the game.]
;W[ei]WL[1311.721]C[White wants to come into your box. Keep him out.]
(;B[ej]BL[1263.174]
;W[fi]WL[1308.021]
;B[gi]BL[1258.131]
;W[fj]WL[1304.615]
(;B[fk]BL[1256.349]
;W[gj]WL[1302.162]
;B[hj]BL[1254.884]
;W[gk]WL[1297.488]
;B[gl]BL[1252.98]
;W[hk]WL[1294.842]
;B[ik]BL[1249.589]
;W[hl]WL[1289.394]
;B[il]BL[1247.401]
;W[fl]WL[1278.781]
;B[hm]BL[1240.485]
;W[gm]WL[1274.618]TR[li][ni][oi][pi][mj][ik][il][hm][hn][pn][no][jp]SQ[ej][ck][fk][dm][em][do]C[This sort of works, but look at how your other stones are hurting now. If you compare this to giving a little and attacking more softly you have fewer points and your stones on the left are much sadder.]
;B[im]BL[1233.531]
;W[lp]WL[1269.755]
(;B[el]BL[1225.953]C[It is good that you want to help these stones, but you spent a lot to defend your box. You need to keep defending it.]
;W[ek]WL[1266.439]
;B[dj]BL[1220.466]
;W[dk]WL[1259.853]
;B[cj]BL[1185.301]
;W[dl]WL[1244.995]
;B[dn]BL[1167.708]
;W[di]WL[1239.546]
;B[ci]BL[1161.89]
;W[dh]WL[1235.852]
;B[dg]BL[1156.816]
;W[cg]WL[1230.786]
;B[ch]BL[1153.412]
;W[bg]WL[1199.498]
;B[fh]BL[1151.147]
;W[lo]WL[1195.072]
;B[ln]BL[1142.124]C[By this point it is too late to defend solidly. Black can be cut too well now.]
;W[kn]WL[1185.256]
;B[ko]BL[1137.066]
;W[mn]WL[1181.97]
;B[lm]BL[1131.869]
;W[mo]WL[1180.43]
;B[kp]BL[1127.534]
;W[hi]WL[1169.735]
;B[ij]BL[1121.314]
;W[gh]WL[1162.529]
;B[fg]BL[1114.509]
;W[gg]WL[1160.429]
;B[mm]BL[1105.785]
;W[nn]WL[1157.151]
;B[mp]BL[1098.547]
;W[mq]WL[1148.519]
;B[np]BL[1092.869]
;W[oo]WL[1145.339]
;B[op]BL[1083.699]
;W[oq]WL[1142.276]TR[dd][ce][de][ng][og][no][mp][np][op]C[The marked self-atari's are unfortunate, but those things do happen. Try to recognize when your stones need help and when it is okay to play away. That comes mostly with experience - there is no formula to tell you when your stones need help.

Your opponent was clearly much stronger than you, so for a first full game you did well. I have taught dozens of people how to play go and they tend to make worse mistakes than these in their first few games. Not noticing an atari is a common one - which is why I always say "atari" in games against new players so they can start to recognize it. Moves like O5 at 69 show that you understand the idea of the game is to make territory which is more than most beginners can recognize.

Experience will be the best teacher. Play plenty of games. As the proverb goes - "Lose your first 100 games as quickly as possible."])
(;B[lo]C[Keep white out. In this case it is okay to touch his stone because it is already somewhat strong - it has the two stones in the coner helping it. This also does more to defend your points and white cannot cleanly cut you.]
(;W[kp]C[White can threaten to cut, but...]
;B[ko]
;W[jo]C[This cut doesn't really work.]
;B[io]
;W[jn]
;B[km]C[Those stones aren't going anywhere.])
(;W[mo]C[This doesn't work.]
;B[mn]
;W[ko]
;B[mp]LB[kp:B][mq:A]C[White has too many cutting points. Not worth it.])))
(;B[hk]C[Even from here you can still make a decent move. Try not to be so firm when attacking your opponent's stones.]))
(;B[gj]CR[gj]TR[li][ni][oi][pi][mj][em][hn][pn][no][jp]C[This move expands and defends your box - your points in the center. It also does not touch the white stone which is still somewhat weak.]))
(;B[cd]C[This would be a stronger move.]))
(;B[np]C[Responding to this is still big.])
(;B[nq]C[This might also be a good move to help build the bottom side of the board - whichever move you play, you should respond to white here.]))
(;B[dn]TR[cn]C[This move just links up your stones and threatens to cut through white at the triangle.]))
(;B[kc]TR[gc][kc][nd]C[This would be better for black]))
(;B[fo]C[Jumping out is a good way to help your stone in most situations. It is not a standard move in this situation, however.])
(;B[cq]C[This attachment is actually the most common move. It looks more complicated, but the purpose is for black to try to settle his stones immediately. Here is one corner sequence (joseki) that can follow.]
;W[cp]
;B[dp]
;W[co]
;B[cn]
;W[dn]
;B[bn]
;W[bq]
;B[cr]
;W[bo]
;B[eq]
;W[bm]
;B[en]
;W[dm]TR[kp]C[White gets influence toward the left, black gets some towards the bottom. Both the black and white groups are alive and fine. This result is considered equal. On this board I think black would want to follow up with a move around the triangle.]))
(;B[pf]C[This pincer is quite severe against white's 4-4 stone]
;W[oe]
(;B[qc]
;W[pc]
;B[qd]C[You can even still win the corner when white forces his way out])
(;B[mf]C[This works to build on the outside])))