I didn't learn about Go until I was 44, is that close enough?
"It was ten years ago today..." {camera fades in to a drizzly Seattle office}
I had been working for a company doing business in Japan, so I was getting interested in learning Japanese and a little about their culture. I thought to myself, "I like chess, I wonder if they have their own version of chess." A little research turned up Shogi. I asked one of our sales reps to bring me back something from one of his trips to Japan, a little pocket-sized magnetic Shogi game. Still nothing about Go yet.
Some months later, another couple of coworkers were playing Go in the lunchroom. I stared at it as I walked by, but didn't stop to ask. It looked interesting, but confusing. And I only recall them playing that one time.
Many more months later, a different pair of coworkers started playing. But they played only a few moves at a time, leaving the game setup in an empty cubicle. It took weeks to finish a game, and since there was only the one board, I never got a chance to get in line for the next match as it stirred a lot of interest from several of our coworkers.
So I pretty much learned some of the basics from just watching the daily play of two to three moves at a time.
When I did get my chance, I immediately fell prey to a ladder and my opponent was surprised to see anyone actually play out a losing ladder all the way across the board. That game didn't last very long and I had to return to the end of the waiting line.
As software developers, we're always on the lookout for new and interesting developments. One day a new Go Game Server showed up on Slashdot, or Sourceforge -- Dragon Go Server. We all signed up. No more waiting lines. We all had games with each other now.
Except for that first crushing defeat against who we all thought was our strongest coworker at 14 kyu (we were all in awe of such a strong level -- later we learned our CEO was 1 dan), I quickly learned that I was actually the next strongest player rising to about 22 kyu from everyone else's 25 kyu or weaker -- just from watching their long drawn out daily play of only a few moves at a time.
But DGS games were still slow. I wanted to experience a full game to find out what this game was all about. I couldn't get that with only a few moves a day. I went to the book store and bought a book, you know the one, it has a cardboard board and punch out stones. I tried to get my daughter to play, but we still couldn't grasp the feel of the game. So I found it on Yahoo Games. But there's no ranking system there, so my first game there, I lost every stone I put down. How could that be? I didn't understand that at all. I tried a few wild and stupid experiments -- playing on the 1st line, passing the first move. I couldn't figure out how I could be at such a disadvantage. I almost gave up the game before I ever got started.
But my DGS games were progressing. I found a player close to my level such that the game felt even, not lopsided. That was the most enjoyable game I ever played. We played several more, until I started surpassing him too. I started throwing out game invitations to anyone who would accept. Then I saw someone from Tacoma -- hey, that's near where I live. He was much stronger than me, but I enjoyed playing and chatting. Then one day he says, "we're having a local tournament, you should come"
There were probably 30-40 players there of all levels. What?!? You mean there have been all these local players all along? And there's a Go Center in Seattle? Wow! A whole new world just opened up to me.
I entered at 19 kyu, a little higher than my DGS rating, so I was nervous about that (not realizing the rating lag with turn-based servers). I won all my games, and won $50. Woohoo, I was hooked!!
Such a fascinating game. Always something to learn at any level, and the skill level was so vast. I was giving 9 stone handicap to some of my coworkers now, and I'm taking 9 stones from various other opponents, who could probably take 9 stones from players above them.
Of course, I was immediately taken aside (by JB) and "forced" to play a game to see if I was sandbagging at 17 kyu (my new AGA rating). An unknown comes in to sweep the tournament. I didn't realize that's what he was doing at first, but even after realizing, it didn't put me off

. And JB was satisfied.
As I got stronger, I learned about major tournaments, and tried to become a fan. News of such events was sparse, so I actually got involved in running some of the online tournaments (just to keep up with the news). Then I learned about game recording -- and skill level prejudice. Wow, smart people looking down on other smart people just because they're not yet very strong at Go
I've gotten strong enough now that I'm no longer
striving to become stronger. I enjoy introducing the game to beginners. I enjoy being a fan of the game, watching stronger players compete and climb that ladder.