I think this is a nice little endgame problem.
For everyone: Assume that White captured two Black stones on the marked square and there is a half point komi for White. What is the result with best play?
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[go]$$c Black to play
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$$| . . . O M O X . . |
$$| . . X O M O X . . |
$$| . . X O O X X . . |
$$| . . X X O . . . . |
$$| . O O X O . O . . |
$$| . O X O O O . O . |
$$| . O X X X X X X . |
$$| . X . . . . . . . |
$$| . . . . . . . . . |
$$ - - - - - - - - -[/go]
(Edit - Actually I see that Uberdude did make a nice explanation of what I wanted to say below. So really all I add are a couple of clarifying diagrams. It's what I get for only reading page 1 of the postings!)
@Xezlec
I think no one has said it precisely so let me make my attempt for your original question from a beginner's POV. Note that when Black plays

below the Black stones have four liberties (points marked with circles) while White has only three (marked X). You win as long as you keep reducing White's liberties
as fast as White reduces yours.
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[go]$$c
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$$| . . C O . O X . . |
$$| . C X O . O X . . |
$$| . C X O O X X . . |
$$| C 1 X X O . . . . |
$$| M O O X O . O . . |
$$| M O X O O O . O . |
$$| M O X X X X X X . |
$$| . X . . . . . . . |
$$| . . . . . . . . . |
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below reduces your liberties from four to three. If you play

as shown, you reduce White's liberties from three to two and are still winning the race.
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[go]$$c
$$ - - - - - - - - -
$$| . . C O . O X . . |
$$| . 2 X O . O X . . |
$$| . C X O O X X . . |
$$| C 1 X X O . . . . |
$$| 3 O O X O . O . . |
$$| M O X O O O . O . |
$$| M O X X X X X X . |
$$| . X . . . . . . . |
$$| . . . . . . . . . |
$$ - - - - - - - - -[/go]
When you played

as shown below, White continued to have three liberties and meanwhile Black's liberties remained at three (although they changed location). As a result, you failed to reduce White's liberties as fast as White reduced yours - and lost sente. Yes! You performed one of those great mysteries that plague the beginner (and and the rest of us when our opponents are strong enough

) - you died in gote! Congratulations, your feet are thus firmly planted on the road to Go addiction. The fact that you came here to complain and seek guidance rather than just switching to another game on your phone may mean that you will never be able to escape Go and return to a normal life. Well done I say and indeed,
welcome to Life in 19x19!
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[go]$$c
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$$| . C 3 O . O X . . |
$$| . 2 X O . O X . . |
$$| . C X O O X X . . |
$$| C 1 X X O . . . . |
$$| M O O X O . O . . |
$$| M O X O O O . O . |
$$| M O X X X X X X . |
$$| . X . . . . . . . |
$$| . . . . . . . . . |
$$ - - - - - - - - -[/go]
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