Checking AlphaGo Teach (probably stronger than Elf, but sometimes I have doubts) for the Sojin argument:
With parallel 4-4s, pincer is 46.9% for black, back off is 44.9% (and best).
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If pincer then 3-3 invade top left is best (46.6%, != 46.9 so we can see these values have a few tenths of a percent variation). Lower left 3-3 is 43.7, i.e. more of a mistake that white's pincer. With the normal human joseki, AGT says black ends with 46.5 at the end (if top right 3-3), more normal human o3 approach is similar at 46.7. So AG agrees that this end result is better for black than if white just backed off initially, and basically the same as after the pincer. Agrees with Sojin/me.
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[go]$$Bcm7 Human joseki ends black 46.5
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However, both players have made significant mistakes! As discussed on the boards before, white 14 should have not been solid connect but underneath for a 5% better result. So if white does this black loses a lot more than the small gain he got from white's bad pincer. This move wasn't unknown to humans before and has been played a few times, but was a fairly obscure move. My wife remembers being told off by her teachers when she wanted to play here. Also instead of 11 hane AGT says black should have played b6 knight move (2% difference), I suppose this doesn't damage f3 so much. Disagrees with Sojin/me.
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[go]$$Bcm7 White better answer, black 40.6
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How about the lower right being a 3-4 point?
TBC
P.S. I don't think this belongs in Beginners forum!