As javaness points out, 33 is the suspicious move. It shows that you care more about "destroying" than building. In fact, while your destruction of his potential 50 point territory superficially succeeded, it was a success for White, who converted the moyo into 25 points of territory and major strength on the outside, plus sente.
When White executed that fine cutting sequence, the game became already hard by move 74.
I must say White played it out quite well - this is an experienced player who knows how to convert thickness into territory.
You did well in winning the battles, making life for every group that was under attack, but lost the war because you decided to fight on too many fronts. Actually it was a fine game of go, showing how beautiful the game can be, unfortunately at your loss.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]
PW[SeeleyBooth]PB[saryuu]WR[6k]BR[16k]DT[2017-08-30]CP[online-go.com]PC[OGS: http://online-go.com/game/9841553]RE[W+28.50]
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;B[bk]CR[fc][fd][ge][ff][hf][fg][gi]LB[kg:C][pj:B][po:A]C[KW: this is the first move I really want to comment or question. Up until here we had a decent opening and early middle game, surely something can be said about it.
This move tells me you like destroying more than building.
Sure, White has developed along the fourth line and has mapped out a potential territory of about 50 points.
However, the rest of the board, especially the right side, is still uncovered ground, in which you have the influence.
You could play A or B to develop that side. Or you could play C to harass the White group and build even more influence.
With your invasion, White may become strong on top and turn your marked group into a weak one which he can harass.
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;W[ck]
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;B[am]C[KW: you make small life in gote. The invasion is a success for Black in terms of destroyed territory. But it can also be called a success for White in terms of built strength. Also, White's territory top left is now secured to about 25 points.
Objectively: White is better off here. His moyo of 50 points was half converted into territory and gained a lot of strength]
;W[hg]C[Plus White has sente and does something about the relative strengths of the top groups.]
;B[gg]
;W[gk]C[(Incidentally, White makes a mistake in direction here: he should attack from the other side and build inifluence towards the open area)]
;B[hj]
;W[il]
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;B[lh]TR[hi][gj]C[Your intentions are good but your shape is thin]
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;B[mh]
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;B[ij]
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;B[gj]
;W[jj]C[(nice cutting sequence by White)]
;B[jk]
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;B[ik]
;W[ki]TR[lh][mh][nh]C[White becomes very strong in the centre and top. Your marked stones become wasted.
At this point the game is already very favourable for White. How did this happen?
1) the premature invasion made White strong
2) This in turn made your big group weaker
3) You counterattacked but left weaknesses in your shape
4) which White exploited quite nicely, I must admit]
;B[in]
;W[gp]
;B[fp]
;W[hn]C[However, here White starts to err.]
;B[im]
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;B[hl]
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;B[jl]C[You become stronger in the centre]
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;W[md]C[Good move]
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;B[cb]C[Another successful invasion]
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;B[]
;W[]LB[lf:B][bg:A]C[As you say, nothing major died. Let's look at the big territories:
White has 2 at A and B
A came about when you invaded
B happened while White used his strength to first invade top right, unsettling Black there, then harassing Black and cutting off the Black stone
Black has no big territories: all groups had to make small life, even the dragon that eventually connected in the centre.
This shows that Black did not build nor attack: you only invaded or defended against attacks.])
(;W[ph]LB[od:C][re:B][of:A]C[Black has half eyes at A and B, C is no eye]))
(;B[ql]
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(;B[gm]LB[fk:A][ho:B]C[Maybe this move would be slow, but it connects all your stones because you can capture cutting stones at A or B]))