@topazg: Thanks for those answers. Yes, playing on both sides is something I know is bad and want to avoid, but sometimes am very guilty of...
@BlindGroup: Interesting answers. I haven't seen that standard invasion of the large keima yet, so thanks for bringing it to my attention.
@bernds: That seems the general consensus here. I thought 85 wasn't the best move, but it turns out it's quite a blunder.
@jlt: Haven't seen that variation yet (or maybe in someone else's game once). Is black alive? My guess is that he is IF he isn't completely surrounded. Image white stones at F6 & F8 or something and then the monkey kills it, no?
Bill Spight wrote:
Some comments. Pretty general agreement.
(;SZ[19]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]GM[1]AP[GOWrite:2.3.46]ST[2]WR[3k]PB[MeesterJonas]RE[B+Resign]KM[6.50]CP[online-go.com]RU[Japanese]C[MeesterJonas: have fungoodgame7: hi]PW[goodgame7]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]GN[ ]FG[259:]DT[2018-11-24]PC[OGS: https://online-go.com/game/15422517]PM[2]BR[10k]TM[240]
;B[pd]
;W[pp]
;B[dd]
;W[dp]
;B[jd]
;W[cf]
;C[*** Since you already have a stone at K-16, there is probably a better play elsewhere.]B[fc]
;W[di]
;B[qn]
;C[I could tenuki or jump in the corner.]W[pk]
;B[qq]
;W[pq]
;B[qp]
;W[po]
;C[For some reason I played this. I know S6 is more 'joseki', but this feels very strong also.
*** Actually, this is the most frequent pro choice, according to Waltheri. S-06 is joseki for the one space pincer.]B[qo]
;W[pn]
(
;C[*** Not a bad idea. See variation.]B[jq]
;W[gq]
(
;C[*** See variation.]B[mq]
;C[Probaby why S6 is joseki instead of R5 earlier. Hane is now a thing.
*** Not much of a thing.]W[qm]
;B[rm]
;W[ql]
;C[*** What is your threat? The left side is big now.]B[mo]
;W[qf]
(
;C[Probably not best move. Pincer seems dangerous, but at least go high here. O16. For some reason I also wanted to kick this tone, but that wouldn't be so good.
*** How about tenuki? Also see variation.]B[nc]
;C[Have to react or I'm dead, I reckon.]W[pr]
;B[qr]
;W[rl]
(
;C[Is this corner group now alive? I thought so during the game, but is it? Let's try some variations.I think it is, though.
*** Yes. The rule of thumb is that if you surround 8 pts. on the side you are OK. Here you surround 11 pts.
As BlindGroup points out, you can tenuki. See variation.
It is good that you have played around with this position.]B[sn]
(
;C[*** See variation.]W[rd]
(
;C[See variation.
*** I have left a comment there.]B[qc]
;W[of]
;C[*** This strengthens White's left side. Not so good. Lizzie likes C-04, which is more or less standard when White has a stone on the side.]B[cq]
;W[cp]
(
;C[*** See variation.]B[bp]
;W[bo]
(
;B[br]
;W[ap]
(
;B[bq]
;W[dq]
;B[dr]
;W[er]
;C[*** White is strong and Black has made small life. Not good for Black.]B[cs]
;W[el]
;B[mf]
;W[bd]
;B[nh]
;W[ph]
;B[cc]
;W[me]
;B[nf]
;W[mc]
;B[nd]
;W[jc]
(
;C[Probably too soft, especially seeing I'm behind. See var.
*** Yes, the hane looks better. I have added a variation or two.]B[id]
;W[ic]
;B[hc]
;W[hb]
;B[gb]
;W[hd]
;B[gc]
;W[kd]
;B[he]
;W[ke]
(
;C[*** Not good to get separated. See variation.]B[rc]
;W[ne]
;B[og]
;W[pf]
;B[oe]
;W[md]
;B[nj]
;W[nl]
;B[mk]
;W[lp]
;B[lq]
;W[ml]
(
;C[mistake. See var.
*** Not necessarily a mistake.]B[ll]
;W[lk]
;B[lj]
;W[kk]
;B[kj]
;C[*** Aji keshi.]W[nk]
;B[mj]
;W[jj]
(
;C[*** Strengthes White unnecessarily. See variation.
End of comments.]B[kl]
;W[jk]
;C[No time for this.]B[kn]
;W[kh]
;B[lh]
;W[kg]
;B[lg]
;W[ki]
;C[And now I see this is dead. A bit late, though.]B[li]
;W[oh]
;C[Trying some things that won't work, though.]B[pj]
;W[qj]
;B[oi]
;W[ng]
;B[mi]
;W[mg]
;B[mh]
;W[ng]
;B[ih]
;W[ie]
;B[gd]
;W[ii]
;B[hf]
;W[im]
;C[And now for some reason he resigns. Game was practically over, though. White wins by a lot. A LOT!]B[fh]
)
(
;C[*** Normal. Threatens double atari.]B[ji]
)
)
(
;C[Probably much better.]B[kk]
)
)
(
;B[md]
(
;W[lc]
;C[*** Black is connected and strong.]B[lf]
)
(
;W[lf]
;B[ne]
;W[lc]
)
)
)
(
;B[kc]
;W[kd]
(
;B[lc]
(
;W[ld]
;B[mb]
;W[md]
;B[je]
;W[lb]
;B[kb]
;W[nb]
;B[la]
;W[ne]
;B[oe]
;W[lf]
;B[le]
;W[ke]
;B[kf]
)
(
;W[je]
;B[id]
;W[ld]
;B[mb]
;W[kb]
;B[md]
;W[lb]
;B[mc]
;W[ic]
;B[hd]
;W[gb]
;B[hc]
;W[hb]
;B[fb]
;W[ja]
)
)
(
;C[*** Maybe here.]B[kb]
;W[jb]
;B[mb]
(
;W[id]
;B[je]
;W[gc]
;B[gd]
;W[hc]
;B[fb]
;W[ie]
;B[jf]
)
(
;W[ke]
;B[id]
;W[lc]
;B[lb]
;W[ne]
;B[oe]
;W[lf]
;B[lg]
;W[kg]
;B[lh]
)
)
)
)
(
;B[fr]
;W[bq]
)
(
;B[aq]
;W[bq]
;B[pg]
;W[pf]
;B[bp]
;W[rr]
;B[qs]
;W[bq]
)
)
(
;B[aq]
;W[dq]
;B[cr]
;W[dr]
;B[bs]
;W[ar]
;B[br]
;W[ao]
;B[as]
;W[ap]
)
)
(
;C[*** Standard.]B[dq]
)
)
(
;C[Maybe this is better now, globally.
*** Yes, but I agree with Lizzie. This stone is too close to the O-17 stone.]B[pf]
;W[pg]
;B[of]
;W[qc]
;B[og]
(
;W[oh]
)
(
;W[ph]
;B[cn]
)
)
)
(
;W[rr]
(
;B[rs]
;W[sr]
;B[rq]
;W[ps]
;B[qs]
;W[so]
;B[sp]
;W[sl]
;B[ro]
;W[sm]
;B[rn]
)
(
;B[qs]
(
;W[so]
;B[sp]
;W[sl]
;B[ro]
;W[sq]
;B[sm]
;W[ss]
;B[rq]
)
(
;W[sl]
;B[so]
;W[sq]
)
)
)
(
;W[so]
;B[sp]
;W[sl]
(
;B[ro]
;W[sm]
;B[rn]
;W[rr]
;B[rs]
;W[rq]
;B[sr]
;W[qs]
;B[ps]
;W[os]
;B[qs]
;W[nr]
)
(
;B[rn]
;W[rp]
;B[ro]
;W[qs]
;B[rs]
;W[rr]
;B[ps]
;W[rq]
;B[or]
)
)
(
;C[*** Better, eh?]W[of]
)
)
(
;W[rn]
;B[ro]
;W[sm]
(
;C[*** Avoinds ko. See variation.]B[sr]
)
(
;W[so]
;B[sp]
;W[sr]
;B[rr]
;C[*** Ko.]W[sq]
)
)
)
(
;C[*** Strengthens White where White is already strong.]B[pf]
;W[pg]
;B[of]
;W[qe]
;B[qd]
;W[ph]
;B[cn]
)
)
(
;C[*** Quite playable, I think. Even in days of yore, when players were more territorial than they are today, you would see plays like this.]B[jo]
)
)
(
;C[*** Since a four space extension is small for White, this is OK. And since Black is playing within White's large sphere of influence, the fourth line is both lighter and better for reducing.]B[ip]
)
)
Concerning your comments:

interesting. I've always seen this as a decent answer in the sanrensei. Playing away I hadn't considered.

glad I made the pro move, especially thinking (and daring) I was leaving joseki behind and followed my own reasoning.


4th line is better for reducing. Though I played 3rd line to make sure I could make a safe group. I guess both can make sense.

I'll add it to my repertoire. Jumping up when you can make a base always looks silly to me, but I'll have to change that way of thinking.
Thank you, once again, Bill, for your very helpful insights. Even if you have given me the same advice a lot of time, don't think it's not helpful. Sometimes you need to hear/do a thing 100 times before it finally seeps through.