Here I have two recent games in the ASR league. Both opponents declined to review the game, so while I've reviewed them myself I haven't heard any other perspectives. I post them below with a minimum of self-pity and defensiveness!

In this game I was crushed by an enterprising 9 kyu. I kept losing group after group with no compensation.

This 9 kyu is quite strong.

Basics: Broken Shape.
In the iseedolls game, cutting at N17 is the only move; otherwise W connects at N17 and B gets a broken shape.

now you know the basic and it is time for you to study joseki.

I commented a lot of nonsense on your first game.
So let me try the second.

16-17 exchange is better for B.
After W20 W will become after Bc9,Wd8,Bc3.
B37 at b1 would turn W36 into a bad move because B would be alive
After w166 if b plays D18 comfortably living in the corner or at the top are miai. B helped you a lot by misplaying that corner.
After b189 you really finished him off.

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I was sort of mad at myself for W16, but letting him get a stable position on the left and potentially invade both corners seemed hard. But perhaps I should have been happy with F16. What would you suggest instead?

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W166 was a complete overplay. I had decided by this point that L&D wasn't his strong point, and thought I needed it to make up lost ground. I still think that was the right decision... if B hadn't made a mistake on M17, it would have been a nail-bitingly close game.

At 138 b is far ahead. You escaped further disaster at the bottom and won the game!! b139 should have been at N1 of course. The bottom is exciting after that move.

What was the deal with trying to save P10?

I assume you mean either p8 or o10... for p8, there was no "deal". I just wanted to invade, and the invasion was a huge failure, and even the ko that I thought I had was denied because the r12 group was wholly useless.

For o10, at first I just wanted to cut and reduce liberties on M7 to make M7's life difficult, and possibly set up a connect-and-die, and then I saw a way that made miai of getting W the liberties he needs to capture m7, and connecting to g10 (which I thought B couldn't allow, although it turned out that should have been fine for him).

(If you're referring to the first game... well, it was a lot of points. In that case if I had sat down and read for three or four minutes, I should have realized that it was surrounded, though.)

...... , B throws away several opportunities to crush me. I was really hoping some people would have ideas, either strategic or tactical, about how to not be in the position I'm in at b139 at all.