I think it's time to post another game. I won, which was a pleasant surprise since every time I tried to count I got the impression I was behind. (Considering that I had White and won by less than komi, I probably
did have less territory on the board every time I tried to count.)
More importantly, this looks to me like another of those games where my attempt to deal with my opponent's big moyo resulted in my getting weak groups, while my opponent had no difficulty finding the weak points in my moyo. Specifically, D7 was a problem even though the group lived, and I thought I got a bad result out of the O17 approach. After

, I seemed to be particularly behind. But as we saw from the previous game I posted, if I don't do anything, Black is going to get a big moyo anyway.
Black probably should have been able to kill the center invasion, and probably should have been able to kill the big group at the top, either of which would have led to a big loss for me.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]TM[1200]OT[5x60 byo-yomi]
PW[Fedya]PB[ernst1957]WR[7k]BR[7k]DT[2016-09-18]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[W+5.50]
;B[dd]BL[1196.528]
;W[pp]WL[1193.939]
;B[pd]BL[1194.508]
;W[cp]WL[1190.47]
;B[qn]BL[1191.976]
;W[nq]WL[1182.424]
;B[qk]BL[1189.979]
;W[cf]WL[1177.624]
;B[ch]BL[1188.196]
;W[cc]WL[1160.058]
;B[dc]BL[1186.186]
;W[cd]WL[1152.516]
;B[de]BL[1184.049]
;W[bf]WL[1149.798]
;B[eg]BL[1182.667]
;W[nc]WL[1123.229]C[I have a feeling this is the first place things really started to go wrong. The more I look at it though, I think this is a better approach than R14. since Black has an ideal pincer at R12.]
;B[lc]BL[1180.106]
;W[ne]WL[1115.626]
;B[pf]BL[1177.778]
;W[kd]WL[1111.336]
;B[ld]BL[1174.985]
;W[le]WL[1105.94]
;B[kc]BL[1173.271]
;W[jd]WL[1101.487]
;B[jc]BL[1171.337]
;W[id]WL[1086.815]
;B[hc]BL[1169.171]
;W[md]WL[1083.04]C[Looking it up, this is apparently not such a good move, and I should have thought of something like G15.]
;B[ob]BL[1162.866]
;W[iq]WL[1053.147]C[I thought my group at the top was OK and I could tenuki. Playing on the bottom looked quite big.]
;B[cn]BL[1159.442]
;W[ep]WL[1042.233]
;B[en]BL[1157.338]
;W[dm]WL[1022.287]C[This is another move that's probably not so good, but I couldn't figure out how to handle Black's left side. Perhaps I should just let him get all that territory and play something like G4 or M4 to prevent Black from invading?]
;B[dn]BL[1155.26]
;W[dk]WL[1012.083]
;B[mf]BL[1152.393]
;W[me]WL[1000.474]
;B[nf]BL[1150.244]
;W[oe]WL[997.513]
;B[of]BL[1145.543]
;W[pe]WL[995.188]
;B[qe]BL[1143.989]
;W[qd]WL[989.183]
;B[pc]BL[1141.833]
;W[rd]WL[971.715]
;B[qf]BL[1139.025]
(;W[nb]WL[960.125]
;B[rb]BL[1136.212]C[I didn't see this move.]
;W[qb]WL[953.584]
;B[qc]BL[1132.715]C[And now I realized I wasn't going to kill anything in the corner.]
;W[rp]WL[863.205]C[I thought the corner was bigger than either G4 or M4. Having said that, there's probably something even bigger....]
;B[kf]BL[1129.335]C[It was only once Black played here that I saw my group on the top had a problem.]
;W[ke]WL[860.239]
;B[jf]BL[1127.64]
;W[if]WL[829.777]
;B[ig]BL[1125.639]
;W[hf]WL[826.317]
;B[hg]BL[1123.838]
;W[gf]WL[822.36]
;B[gg]BL[1122.094]
;W[oc]WL[819.597]
;B[pb]BL[1119.149]
;W[od]WL[817.392]C[There's one eye....]
;B[mb]BL[1115.723]C[I don't think I could have gotten an eye on the top anyway. I think Black should have played H16.]
;W[hd]WL[808.489]
;B[gc]BL[1112.062]
;W[ge]WL[803.308]C[Yeah, the empty triangle is normally bad, but this gets me my second eye.]
;B[fl]BL[1107.248]C[And now Black starts to attack my stones on the left.]
;W[di]WL[791.741]
;B[dh]BL[1104.935]
;W[ei]WL[789.009]
;B[gi]BL[1102.464]
;W[bl]WL[768.936]
;B[bn]BL[1099.866]
;W[bj]WL[765.234]
;B[bh]BL[1098.326]
;W[on]WL[727.521]C[I thought I'd be able to get two eyes on the left, so I proceeded to try to reduce Black's moyo.]
;B[pm]BL[1093.121]
;W[jl]WL[700.013]C[This may be too deep, but I think I have to play something audacious.]
;B[nl]BL[1090.432]
;W[jj]WL[696.591]
;B[gq]BL[1084.116]
;W[hp]WL[690.839]
;B[fp]BL[1081.428]
;W[fo]WL[689.214]
;B[eq]BL[1079.611]
;W[dq]WL[684.727]
;B[eo]BL[1077.599]
;W[dp]WL[681.306]
;B[go]BL[1075.379]
;W[dr]WL[678.643]
;B[fn]BL[1073.809]
;W[br]WL[663.067]C[I don't like this move, but I think I have to play it to get two eyes for this group?]
(;B[er]BL[1071.22]C[I think I got lucky here. Black should harass teh stones at K8/K10.]
;W[ir]WL[628.452]
;B[in]BL[1067.416]
;W[lk]WL[625.147]
;B[mj]BL[1064.851]
;W[lj]WL[611.825]
;B[lm]BL[1061.685]
;W[mk]WL[605.136]
;B[nk]BL[1059.117]
;W[kl]WL[600.322]
;B[km]BL[1056.468]
;W[kh]WL[596.132]
;B[ik]BL[1052.862]
;W[jk]WL[592.85]
;B[ij]BL[1049.665]
;W[mi]WL[586.148]
;B[nj]BL[1047.165]
;W[mh]WL[583.293]
;B[oh]BL[1044.092]
;W[kp]WL[575.611]
;B[ki]BL[1038.824]
;W[ji]WL[572.643]
;B[kj]BL[1036.758]C[I thought I had screwed up, and then I saw...]
;W[lg]WL[542.128]C[Threatens to connect, and allows me to play M11 next.]
;B[lf]BL[1034.634]
;W[li]WL[540.113]
;B[kg]BL[1031.916]
;W[mg]WL[535.99]
;B[jh]BL[1030.202]
;W[kk]WL[533.606]
;B[ii]BL[1028.806]
;W[sm]WL[488.343]
;B[sn]BL[1025.566]
;W[rn]WL[485.862]
;B[rm]BL[1023.528]
;W[so]WL[482.546]
;B[rl]BL[1022.123]
;W[cb]WL[461.63]
;B[db]BL[1019.822]
;W[da]WL[458.529]
;B[ea]BL[1017.205]
;W[ca]WL[455.746]
;B[fb]BL[1016.209]
;W[mo]WL[433.704]
;B[cm]BL[1012.87]
;W[cl]WL[430.112]
;B[em]BL[1011.21]
;W[ci]WL[423.355]
;B[bi]BL[1006.304]
;W[aj]WL[415.838]
;B[dl]BL[1003.244]
;W[ek]WL[411.797]
;B[fk]BL[1000.306]
;W[fj]WL[409.667]
;B[gj]BL[997.534]
;W[df]WL[356.346]
;B[ef]BL[994.962]
;W[jm]WL[346.135]
;B[jn]BL[990.053]
;W[kn]WL[341.591]
;B[mm]BL[987.617]
;W[om]WL[335.567]
;B[ol]BL[985.362]
;W[ic]WL[304.911]
;B[ib]BL[982.223]
;W[mc]WL[300.459]
;B[lb]BL[974.597]
;W[es]WL[282.343]
;B[fr]BL[972.233]
;W[im]WL[235.027]
;B[hn]BL[968.197]
;W[hm]WL[230.873]
;B[ko]BL[966.281]
;W[ln]WL[228.241]
;B[lo]BL[964.763]
;W[mn]WL[225.664]
(;B[jo]BL[962.218]C[During the game, I thought Black should play M4, but looking at it afterwards, I don't think it works.]
;W[lp]WL[222.723]
;B[jp]BL[959.87]
;W[jq]WL[221.017]
;B[qo]BL[958.125]
;W[qp]WL[218.71]
;B[oo]BL[954.581]
;W[po]WL[211.455]
;B[pn]BL[951.266]
;W[nn]WL[204.51]
;B[gm]BL[943.599]
;W[ma]WL[134.456]
;B[la]BL[939.773]
;W[na]WL[132.346]
;B[jb]BL[934.872]
;W[rc]WL[112.253]
;B[sb]BL[931.108]
;W[pa]WL[98.657]
;B[qa]BL[928.744]
;W[oa]WL[96.337]
;B[qb]BL[925.585]
(;W[ra]WL[91.935]
;B[re]BL[923.046]C[As soon as I saw Black play this move, I started to think I had screwed up and could have killed the group by playing here instead of S19. After looking at it, if I screwed up it was earlier.]
;W[je]WL[61.955]C[One point gote; I should have played something bigger like F16.]
;B[fd]BL[914.389]
;W[fe]WL[59.421]
;B[ee]BL[912.102]
;W[ap]WL[54.321]
;B[ao]BL[909.58]
;W[bo]WL[51.078]
;B[an]BL[907.004]
;W[co]WL[47.853]
;B[fi]BL[905.162]
;W[ej]WL[45.726]
;B[eh]BL[903.86]
;W[al]WL[39.039]
;B[hr]BL[895.903]
;W[is]WL[36.49]
;B[fs]BL[892.314]
;W[ds]WL[33.829]
;B[hq]BL[890.675]
;W[ip]WL[31.269]
;B[hs]BL[887.394]
;W[ni]WL[18.487]
;B[oi]BL[884.775]
;W[ng]WL[16.843]
;B[og]BL[882.558]
;W[hl]WL[6.643]
;B[hk]BL[879.266]
;W[el]WL[3.585]
;B[gl]BL[875.833]
;W[ml]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[nm]BL[873.618]
;W[mp]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[sl]BL[864.301]
;W[sn]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[ro]BL[862.753]
;W[sp]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[pl]BL[860.748]
;W[ce]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[ag]BL[857.526]
;W[af]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[ff]BL[855.659]
;W[gd]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[bg]BL[852.27]
;W[ai]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[gp]BL[847.693]
;W[ho]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[dm]BL[844.693]
;W[io]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[gn]BL[842.969]
;W[]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[dg]BL[833.355]
;W[]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[cg]BL[830.716]
;W[]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[ac]BL[827.654]
;W[bc]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[ab]BL[824.49]
;W[ad]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[be]BL[820.24]
;W[bb]WL[60]OW[5]
;B[]BL[820.239]
;W[]WL[60]OW[5]TW[aa][ba][ab][ac][bd][nd][ae][be][he][ie][lh][ki][cj][dj][kj][ak][bk][ck][no][oo][bp][np][op][aq][bq][cq][kq][lq][mq][oq][pq][qq][rq][sq][ar][cr][jr][kr][lr][mr][nr][or][pr][qr][rr][sr][as][bs][cs][js][ks][ls][ms][ns][os][ps][qs][rs][ss]TB[fa][ga][ha][ia][ja][ka][ra][sa][eb][gb][hb][kb][ec][fc][rc][sc][ed][qd][rd][sd][se][rf][sf][fg][jg][pg][qg][rg][sg][fh][gh][hh][ih][ph][qh][rh][sh][hi][pi][qi][ri][si][hj][oj][pj][qj][rj][sj][gk][ok][pk][rk][sk][ql][fm][qm][fo][fq][gr][gs])
(;W[re]
;B[rf]
;W[ra]
;B[sc]C[Black still wins the semeai.]))
(;B[lp]
;W[jo]
;B[jp]
;W[io]
(;B[kq]
;W[ip]
;B[jq])
(;B[jq]
;W[kq]
;B[ho]
;W[ip]
;B[jr]
;W[lq])))
(;B[jn]))
(;W[rb]
;B[mb]
;W[nb]
;B[na]))