Valoz123 wrote:
I always hear to play moves that are "bigger". How do you figure out how "big" a move is, especially in the early game where it is not obvious to a beginner how many points can come from a move?
Join the club. How many points an opening play gains is not necessarily obvious to anybody. For instance, we now think that the opening play on the 4-4 gains about 14 points. But traditionally, pros thought that it gained only about 10 points. As the game develops and positions become more definite, how much plays gain becomes clearer, but indeed, at the beginning of the game how much plays gain is not very clear.
The best way to get a feel for the size of plays is to look at and go over pro games, particularly games by Takagawa and Fujisawa Hideyuki (AKA Shuko), who were known for their skill at the opening. After that, the best advice, IMO, is that of Takemiya:
Make the plays that you want to play. Before you develop a feel, that can be disastrous advice, unless you are playing against strong players, who can show you when and where your plays are too small. Beginners often continue play in a local area long after the plays have become relatively small. You get an idea in your head and it is hard to let go of it. I know, because I did that when I was a beginner.

Currently, the best player in the world is AlphaGo, and I am including one of its games against itself, with brief comments about its big plays in the opening.
(;ST[2]FF[4]GM[1]AP[GOWrite:2.3.46]CA[UTF-8]SZ[19]PM[2]PW[AlphaGo]GN[ ]KM[7.50]RU[Chinese]PB[AlphaGo]RE[B+Resign]FG[259:]
;C[*** The first move in a corner is big.]B[pd]
;W[dd]
;B[pq]
;W[cp]
;C[*** The approach to a corner is big, but maybe not quite as big.]B[ep]
;W[qo]
;C[*** The reply extension to a corner approach is big.]B[np]
;C[*** So are the next plays in this corner..]W[eq]
;B[fq]
;W[dq]
;B[fp]
;W[cn]
;C[*** The pincer is big.]B[qk]
;C[*** The wedge on the side is big.]W[jq]
;C[*** This play to secure the corner is big. It almost kills the White stone.]B[qp]
;C[*** Making a base is big. Usually bases encompass more area, but this one is still big. ]W[lq]
;C[*** This jump is big. It would not be big if White had a strong attack. This play actually attacks the White group on the bottom side, but obviously not very strongly.]B[em]
;C[*** The 3-3 invasion is big.]W[qc]
;C[*** Pressing down on it and building a wall is also big.]B[qd]
;W[pc]
;B[od]
;C[*** Securing the White group is also big. White has other ways to secure this group, but this one does not strengthen the Black wall.]W[nb]
;C[*** This one space jump is big. It stakes out territory. That does not mean that it claims much territory, but Black has a large sphere of influence.]B[ok]
;C[*** This play looks slow, but it is big, too. It would be big for Black to play here, confining White and expanding the Black sphere of influence. This play also aims at the Black wall, which does not have eye shape.]W[mc]
;C[*** This play launches an attack against this White group. It is big, OC, as are the next several moves in the fight. Often these fighting moves are called urgent instead of big, but they are still big.
Last comment. ]B[kp]
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