VannLucas wrote:Offline I play a lot of dan-levels, due to my club, and I -really- enjoy those games. The moves make sense to me, because I've probably been "spoiled" since the start by players who know very well what they do. I think the problem for me now is that because of this, I expect the same level of play from my opponents at my level. Which hasn't happened in one game out of all those losses. I've not had enough experience to learn how to "punish" very well, and I end up in awful situations and end up resigning due to no other option that I can see.
A friend is loaning me the 1001 Tsumego book, and I hope it will help me recognise more things to deal with.. But still.. Any other advice? I play good games when it's against stronger opponents (in example my 4d game, though with handicap, was a loss by only 36.5 points) but "even level" or, seemingly more increasive, lower ranked opponents just rip through me. My reading won't be as good, and I'll just.. Fail. I think it's psychological on my end, too. Maybe I don't read ahead enough because I don't expect them to be as strong, but the main problem I think is that I don't know how to deal with "bad" moves. As such, they somehow turn into good ones for the opponent.
My rank on KGS is almost back to 16 because of all these losses, and I have no idea how to get out of this funk.
Any advice, experiences, etc. would be greatly appreciated.
I just saw this thread.
After scanning your games, it's clear that you need to hit the books. 1001 L&D problems is ok, but Graded Go Problems for Beginners vol. II and III is probably a bit better for you-- get them. Your stones also lack global coordination, but that will develop with time and experience in even (or at least lower handicap) games. You should focus on learning to read, and on losing another 100 even games (preferably at least some on a smaller board). Oh, and stop resigning so early.
Part of your rank is how well you deal with the crap that people around your level play. Dan players effectively don't play the really awful crap that 15k's do, so you never get to play against it IRL, so you don't know what to do about it. Solution? Do your go problems, and when you see a move you don't think a dan player would play, think hard about how to punish it locally. Once in a while, ask someone stronger what you should have done in one of those situations.
Don't get into the trap of thinking, "I shouldn't be losing to these players, I know I'm better than this, I only take X stones against an Xk/d." This thinking, in addition to being incorrect and disrespecting your opponent, will only serve to make losses more bitter and the game less fun. If you lose 20 out of 22 games on KGS, it's apparent that, at least at the time, you were over-ranked. The reasons why that could be are many, ranging from "you had a few lucky wins to begin with" to "you are learning new material and haven't yet successfully synthesized it with the things you already know." Don't worry about it, it's a number-- it will go up in the long term even if there are some dips in the short term.
I hope that helps

PS I'm not sure how many stones your IRL dan players are giving you, but there's a good chance that they are not exerting themselves (they may even be working hard to not win the game by large margins). 36 points is an enormous margin for a 4d (don't worry, at your level it's not rude to play all the way to the end). Hopefully they give you helpful comments during or after the game, it kinda sounds like they do but I can't tell.