PeterPeter wrote:I must say I am impressed by the concern and advice being offered to someone who might have given up on the game. The old stereotype about Go players being more helpful and friendly than chess players is mostly true, in my experience. Makes me more likely to pick up the game again.
jts wrote:I just thirty minutes ago was in a bookstore, perusing books with titles like Simply Slav, Attacking with the Sicilian, Nizmo-Everything, Changing up the Tyigorin, Stylish Openings and You.... (There was also a great book about a bridge murder that I wish I had bought for my grandmother!) At that point I was thinking rather loftily about how superior go is.
That has gone over my head

. Was it the fact that there are openings with names that you picked up on, or the use of "simply", "attacking", "stylish"?
I wasn't clear. In Go, 90%+ of books are about tactics, life and death, problems, general strategic ideas, etc. There are a few joseki books and encyclopedia, but no books on a single joseki, and I can think of only two books that deal with a specific opening strategy.
For chess, meanwhile, out of two shelves of chess books, 90%+ will be not just about the opening, but about a specific opening, and indeed a specific branch of moves along a specific, already somewhat unusual, opening. (For example, the branch of the Sicilian where black wants to develop an active attack). Thus, to a go player, it appears that a huge amount of effort in the chess world goes into learning the opening book inside and out.
jts wrote:(This doesnt even start to get into all the tedium of chess "tactics", which can devolve into memorizing the specific spaces on the board which are good for a certain kind of fork.)
That has also gone over my head. Forks depend on the relative positions of pieces, not spaces of the board. The only squares that are slightly more interesting than the others are f2 and f7 in the opening.
Right, f7 and c7 for knight forks, d5 and e5 as outposts for setting up knight forks, e7 and f6 knight forks after 0-0, h5 for queen forks... I don't mean to pick on chess, which is quite fun after all, but in Go after you've learned one tactic the next level is to learn about a more complicated tactic, or to apply the same tactic in more difficult combinations, whereas in chess the next step is to remember specific spaces on the board where the tactic is likely to work. Which, again, makes it seem odd to me that you are sticking to chess because you hate memorization -- but hey, if you simply say "I have more fun with chess", what's to argue with? I'm just commenting because I feel like you must have misunderstood something about Go!
PeterPeter wrote:I can definitely relate to what Lyzl said on
http://lifein19x19.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=7505:
I think for me personally, it has a lot to do with the anonymity and seriousness of games online.
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I like to 'share' a game with someone in person. Discuss positions and the flow, and comment on moves. The game is, after all, a negotiation about dividing up a cake. Online games leave me cold. They feel like a mathematical exercise against a computer, and all you get out of it is a final score. I know you can chat by text online, but the effort of typing compared with speaking, and the lag (the game has moved on before you can type and post a comment) mean that it is a poor substitute.
I have never played with physical stones, but I do not think computer graphics are an issue for me.
I definitely feel this. Truth be told, I haven't played on kgs for a while, partly due to life and partly due to having a wonderful local club where we goof off and harangue each other while we play. But when I was on KGS, the ASR league was a great way to meet people who want to take a more friendly approach to the game. The beginner room and the teaching ladder room also had this flavor, to some degree. But nearly always in online go, people prefer to focus on playing during the game, and to be chatty and friendly during the review or while spectating another player's game. If you get to know a people on KGS that way, you won't be anonymous for very long... it is a relatively small community.