Hi Hrabanus,
Welcome.
How many games have you finished, approximately ?
Less than 50 ? More than 100 ?

Yes, this shape is not good. P17 is a shared vital point.
"Shared" means it's good for B if B gets it,
and it's good for W if W gets it.

M17 -- save

AND reduce B's liberties
( your idea of L16 does not reduce B's liberties. )

After this move, you get a bad, broken shape for W here.
See also
Toothpaste.
This result began with

,
and ended with

when you allowed B to capture the important cutting stone

.

Wrong idea: your R16 group is already alive -- lots of eyespace in the corner.
To improve, you need (a) more experience (thus the question about your total number of finished games;
and (b) Life-and-Death exercises.

Wrong shape. You cannot connect with this move,
or any other move here, if B replies correctly.
To improve, you need to expand your knowledge of basic shapes.
( Again, your experience is important for this level. )

Wrong shape. Same problem as

-- you cannot accomplish your goal here because your knowledge of the shape here is missing.

-

This exchange and shape: Classic
Toothpaste.

B can hit the shared vital point J14.

Shape problem ( see

).

This doesn't work (too late).

Vital point. See
Elephant's eye.

Wrong shape. B can push at C10 and your local shape collapses.

was too small, too slow -- your 2 stones there are completely unimportant.
You had a chance to fix your shape with D10.
If you have finished much fewer than 100 games --
( example: less than 50 total games ) --
I suggest you finish 100 games as soon as possible.
All board sizes are OK; but you can reach 100 faster
with more games on smaller boards ( smaller than 19x19. )
If you already have finished 100 games,
then continue to have your games reviewed,
continue to do Go problems,
continue to
review your reviews -- Repetition is important.
See
Mr. Kaz's blog on Go.