I'm roughly your strength, maybe a bit weaker. Hopefully my comments are still of any use to you ; )
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[0.50]TM[600]OT[5x20 byo-yomi]
PW[Me]PB[Opponent]WR[1d]BR[1k]DT[2012-11-13]PC[The KGS Go Server at
http://www.gokgs.com/]C[fandan [1k\]: hi
AnLiyao [1d\]: hi have fun
fandan [1k\]: u2
]RE[W+Resign]
;B[pp]BL[596.124]
;W[dd]WL[598.058]
;B[pc]BL[593.519]
;W[dq]WL[593.244]
;B[fc]BL[592.38]
;W[cf]WL[589.65]
;B[jd]BL[589.6]
;W[nq]WL[584.825]LB[qf:A]C[SoDesuNe:
It's more common to approach at A to prevent Black from making a framework at the top. See Kobayashi-Fuseki.]
(;B[qn]BL[581.554]C[SoDesuNe:
I like answering high here.
See variation.]
;W[jp]WL[582.156]C[SoDesuNe:
White plays some sort of Kobayashi, too, most peculiar =D]
;B[do]BL[574.823]LB[cn:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Maybe approaching at A is easier for Black, too.]
;W[fp]WL[562.626]LB[dl:A]C[SoDesuNe:
You thought about a pincer around A? I think it fits here quite nicely.]
;B[cq]BL[569.221]
;W[cr]WL[561.355]
(;B[dp]BL[560.644]C[SoDesuNe:
Strange play. I don't know this sequence.
See variation.]
;W[eq]WL[553.207]
;B[bq]BL[559.425]LB[bp:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Often the shape move in such situations is A. B3 certainly looks off.]
;W[bo]WL[547.284]LB[cl:A][bo:B]C[SoDesuNe:
Looks way too hasty. Why not take a big point (pincer around A aiming at B?) and let Black defend in Gote?]
;B[br]BL[549.884]LB[cm:A]TR[bo]C[SoDesuNe:
I think, Black is too scared. The side is bigger than the corner, Black should counter-attack the marked stone - around A?]
;W[cl]WL[542.859]C[SoDesuNe:
I feel like White got the superior result.]
;B[dr]BL[545.531]
;W[er]WL[541.699]
;B[cs]BL[542.952]C[SoDesuNe:
Living small in Gote, very painful.]
;W[pr]WL[538.571]LB[pm:C][no:A][lq:B]C[SoDesuNe:
Wrong direction. A also prevents Black's invasion at B and flattens his framework at the top-right at the same time (e.g. aiming at C).]
;B[mo]BL[538.541]
;W[lp]WL[536.072]LB[hp:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Painful to defend here. Eight stones used to claim the bottom area and Black could still invade at A eventually.]
;B[pj]BL[534.806]LB[pi:B][qi:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Difficult. I don't like Q10, I feel it doesn't work well with Q17. A would be better, I think. Maybe even B. Makes it harder for Wite when he approaches the top-right.]
;W[pf]WL[532.343]C[SoDesuNe:
I like this move. Diffcult for me to find a good answer with Q10.]
;B[qe]BL[521.643]LB[nd:A][od:B]C[SoDesuNe:
I feel like defending the top at A is bigger. But then White will live easily due to R17. I can't help but feel Q10 lost the framework.
B is worth consideration...]
;W[pe]WL[528.801]
;B[qd]BL[507.067]
;W[ld]WL[513.004]
;B[nd]BL[503.046]LB[lc:C][nc:A][oc:B][ne:D]C[SoDesuNe:
I prefer A (solid, makes C or something like D Miai, I think). Leaving behind something like B itches me.]
;W[jc]WL[502.958]
;B[kd]BL[492.74]C[SoDesuNe:
I absolutely don't like this move ^^ I think Hane is the only viable response.]
;W[kc]WL[500.773]
;B[le]BL[490.883]
;W[id]WL[494.938]
;B[lc]BL[478.814]
;W[ic]WL[484.145]LB[lb:A]C[SoDesueNe:
Maybe A first?
Black lost too much. F17 is now weak and White is strong.]
(;B[db]BL[475.193]LB[lb:A]TR[ic][jc][kc][id]C[SoDesuNe:
I ponder wether Black should fight here... White's marked group looks pretty strong with A and access to the center. Maybe Black should cut his loses and play 3*3?
See variation.]
;W[cc]WL[482.491]
;B[cb]BL[473.379]
;W[bb]WL[480.347]
;B[dc]BL[471.804]
;W[cd]WL[478.163]
;B[fe]BL[466.184]
;W[lb]WL[476.365]
;B[mc]BL[463.547]
;W[ie]WL[474.75]
;B[fg]BL[457.458]
;W[ph]WL[468.187]
;B[qi]BL[451.686]LB[ni:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Black should play A in my opinion, White is already undercut with R15 and can't make life at the side.]
;W[rg]WL[465.773]
;B[ig]BL[440.765]LB[ni:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Still A, I think.]
;W[ke]WL[463.748]
;B[md]BL[432.539]
;W[jg]WL[457.983]
;B[lh]BL[428.452]C[SoDesuNe:
Black's jumping the gun. Hane at K12 is fine. It strengthens his own group]
;W[mg]WL[448.598]
;B[lg]BL[426.066]
;W[mh]WL[447.573]
;B[if]BL[418.256]C[SoDesuNe:
Bumping the head against a wall, again?]
;W[jf]WL[444.395]
;B[jh]BL[406.321]
;W[ed]WL[440.825]
;B[fd]BL[404.146]
;W[gb]WL[439.199]
;B[fb]BL[396.718]
;W[gc]WL[438.144]
;B[ch]BL[354.022]
;W[dh]WL[410.186]C[SoDesuNe:
Good, seperating Black.]
;B[cg]BL[344.988]C[SoDesuNe:
And yet again.]
;W[dg]WL[407.5]
;B[bf]BL[338.021]
;W[ef]WL[404.734]LB[ga:B][gd:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Black could think about defending with A. Since White's group is enclosed, there might be a way to kill it when White ignores this move and Black plays B.]
;B[ff]BL[324.635]
;W[be]WL[403.278]
;B[cj]BL[319.469]
;W[ek]WL[395.841]LB[bi:E][ci:D][di:A][dj:B][el:C]C[SoDesuNe:
I like this move. Surrounds, keeps seperated and strengthens your own group at the same time.
Still, maybe A is more straight forward. If Black plays B, White can jump to C and Black has still to worry about D or E.]
;B[ej]BL[311.515]
;W[di]WL[393.529]
;B[dj]BL[309.642]
;W[ci]WL[392.175]LB[bi:A]C[SoDesuNe:
I wouldn't want to push here. White has A later on, which is better since you can't really cut Black.]
;B[bi]BL[307.004]
;W[bh]WL[388.965]
;B[bk]BL[303.446]
;W[em]WL[385.137]LB[bh:B][ci:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Inconsequent. A and B ended up stengthening Black now.]
;B[bg]BL[294.719]
;W[ih]WL[383.416]LB[mj:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Attacking is fine but I don't think it is the right move here. I think A is so much bigger, making your own group stable and ruining Black's prospects there. Black's running out of territory.]
;B[hh]BL[283.594]LB[ec:C][gd:D][fi:B][mj:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Same thing as before. Black is lacking territory, he should think about ways to play A. Maybe even Tenuki here? B connects, C is one eye in Gote, D could very well be Sente against White's group... Black has to do something.]
;W[ii]WL[381.517]
;B[ji]BL[282.082]
;W[hi]WL[379.783]
;B[gh]BL[273.253]
;W[fi]WL[373.517]
;B[gi]BL[269.86]
;W[fj]WL[366.144]
;B[gj]BL[261.853]
;W[gk]WL[362.496]
;B[ei]BL[242.502]
;W[eh]WL[357.04]
;B[fh]BL[240.386]
;W[fk]WL[355.949]
;B[ij]BL[229.674]C[SoDesuNe:
Net-gain for Black.]
;W[mj]WL[354.085]C[SoDesuNe:
Big.]
;B[jm]BL[209.436]LB[ba:C][mb:B][nk:E][bl:F][qq:A][es:D]C[SoDesuNe:
Strange play.
I feel like any play from A to F is bigger. B, C, E and F can very well be Sente, too.]
;W[hk]WL[349.327]
;B[hj]BL[206.468]
;W[kn]WL[340.201]
;B[ll]BL[182.751]
;W[cn]WL[331.58]C[SoDesuNe:
Dangerous to leave your group unattended now... I can't help but feel it could die.]
;B[dn]BL[156.322]
;W[cm]WL[322.894]
;B[cp]BL[139.955]
;W[co]WL[299.193]C[SoDesuNe:
Yes, this threatens to kill Black's group. Still, it's 1-point-Gote in itself? Black can play B8, which is larger endgame and saves his group. So your move might catch some players off-guard but overall I don't like it because it has almost no value in itself.
E.g. playing B8 yourself is bigger endgame and also threatens to kill. Black is anyway losing if he can't kill your right side group. Or has superb Yose.
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;B[qf]BL[105.832]
;W[qg]WL[294.955]
;B[nf]BL[100.218]
;W[li]WL[285.582]
;B[mf]BL[73.644]
;W[oi]WL[272.584]
;B[og]BL[68.404]
;W[ri]WL[265.653]
;B[rj]BL[65.846]
;W[si]WL[264.034]
;B[qh]BL[58.548]
;W[pg]WL[257.875]
;B[pi]BL[50.898]
;W[oh]WL[254.181]
;B[rh]BL[47.478]
;W[ng]WL[252.245]
;B[of]BL[26.217]
;W[oj]WL[247.411]
;B[ni]BL[21.223]
;W[pk]WL[244.073]
;B[qk]BL[9.611]
;W[sh]WL[242.451]
;B[qj]BL[8.794]
;W[ql]WL[240.685]
;B[pl]BL[5.438]
;W[ok]WL[239.52]
;B[rl]BL[20]OB[5]
;W[ol]WL[238.442]
;B[qm]BL[20]OB[5]
;W[mm]WL[236.606]
;B[hn]BL[20]OB[4]
;W[fn]WL[232.765]
;B[go]BL[20]OB[4]
;W[fo]WL[231.043]
;B[hq]BL[20]OB[4]
;W[ah]WL[228.413]
;B[ai]BL[20]OB[4]
;W[bj]WL[227.55]
;B[ag]BL[20]OB[4]
;W[ck]WL[223.141]
;B[aj]BL[20]OB[4]
;W[bl]WL[218.333]
;B[de]BL[20]OB[4]
;W[ee]WL[215.89]
;B[ba]BL[20]OB[4]
;W[bc]WL[212.587])
(;B[cc]
;W[dc]
;B[db]
;W[eb]
;B[cb]
;W[ec]
;B[be]
;W[ce]
;B[bd]LB[fc:D][cj:B][ol:A][hp:C]TR[kd][pj]C[SoDesuNe:
Difficult. I feel White has to take care of his right side group now and Black has to profit from attacking it. Making A as big as possible. Later Black has B too attack White's group there. Preferably chasing it into the center to prepare C and/or utilizing D.]))
(;B[cl]
;W[cp]
;B[ci]LB[co:A][hp:C][lq:B]C[SoDesuNe:
If Black is afraid of a White pincer after the C2-C4-exchange. This is playable. Later A ist big for Black.
Bottom is not that big. Black can aim at B and C later on.]))
(;B[pn]
;W[jp]
;B[qi]LB[ql:A]C[SoDesuNe:
Might be a bit loose due to A but I think Black is fine for the moment.]))