The real benefit to joseki for all but fairly strong players is to see what
can happen. There's little to no value in playing a game and thinking 'ah, I know what the joseki move is next', but there's a great deal of value in getting to that position and having a
feel for where
might be good to play and to focus your reading. This will be far more generally useful.
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$$ | . . 4 5 7 . 3 . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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A good example is, I think,
this joseki beginning (edit: now above). The question is where to play next? Now, there are lots of variations with lots of depth for the joseki as a whole, but the really important question will probably turn out to be this one...and many many players get it wrong because they don't realise they can and should wedge next (see below). I think a lot of the value of joseki study is revealing these not necessarily obvious shape moves, which may also be useful in other situations, so as to get a handle on the vital turning points of the shape. If you get this move right and are confident that it's a reasonable move, much of the rest of the joseki is 'easy' to read or to at least make a reasonable play at.
A common joseki continuation is the left below - try and read it, and note that it's basically all forced once black plays 2 (white can play a

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but I won't go into it and it's relatively unusual and there's probably a ladder involved - in fact, my saying that is an example of exactly this kind of study, I know to think about ladders in this shape and can probably construct a reasonable sequence even though I don't know the 'joseki' followups), so remembering this single important move is the crux point. If you understand why the wedge is okay, you've learnt the most important thing, and memorising more moves is less important. Of course there
is still more useful information if you want to research it more...for instance, there are good reasons that white doesn't play

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Compare to the right; if white doesn't wedge in, black connects easily and just takes lots of territory, whilst white's outside shape isn't usually good enough compensation as the shape is bad (it looks like he's pushed from behind and he could have got into the corner a bit) and black can act to counter or even attack it.
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$$ | . . 4 . 6 3 8 . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . 5 O X X 1 X . . . . . X 2 X X O 6 . |
$$ | . . X O O 2 . . . , . . . 1 O O X 4 . |
$$ | . . 7 . . 9 . . . . . . . . . . 3 5 . |
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As such, I don't think there's much value in any kind of deep study of variations or trying to look strictly at a set that you consider likely to come up. If nothing else, you'll find your opponents never actually play the things

. Instead, I think there's a lot of value in keeping an eye on them as a specific topic when reviewing your games - simply ask the question in any sequence, what
could have gone differently...and knowing that,
should you have played differently? Is there a different move you prefer? Is there a clever move that turns out to work well but that would be hard to read on the spot? This way you get to see lots of joseki that are relevant to your actual games, which makes them easier to remember as well as actually useful.
I personally used to use kogos joseki 'dictionary' via
eidogo. This is fine for basic shapes, but if you use it you should be very aware that it
does have mistakes and misleading comments in...it's fine if you're careful and aware of that, but don't take it as fact. There are also many other references now like dailyjoseki and josekipedia, but I haven't looked at them for a while. They probably come with the same caveats as eidogo.