I think you should have pushed through with 35 instead of 37. The problem with 35 in the game was that White had both M3 and M5 on the board so Black will get cut no matter what happens. If White had played 36 at 38, what would Black have done?
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helps Black a lot. White has to push through at 4 to make any sense out of 2. As long as Black goes ahead with 5, White gets to go back and connect with 6. Now what will Black do? Black 7 at 8 would revert to the game with a rather uncomfortable situation for Black. The exchange of 7 for 8, however, leaves Black with two groups of weak stones and a tough fight ahead.
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If Black seizes the opportunity to push through with 5 below, White is forced to answer. Black can drive all way down to 9. White has to end with 10 or something nearby to fix the potential Black play at 10.
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It seems to me that White has to simply push through with

below. Black still gets the chance to put White on the spot with 7 however. White probably cuts with 8. Black probably should just connect because taking the White stone and allowing White to cut at 9 and live in that area looks difficult. Again White will have to fix things up here and end in gote. I think Black is happy to just push up at 'a'. Alternatively 'b' to prevent an attack on the lower right stones might be attractive.
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