Several comments.

As always, no guarantees.

Main focus: Neglect of the center.
Black neglected the center after White 122. I know, the center magari for Black 123 does not look like much, but center magaris are bigger than they look, as a rule, and it plainly was big enough to make eye shape, even with the White wall nearby. Later on, when White attacked the Black group on the left, expanding into the center was the easiest way to make life. There is a rule of thumb, attributed to Murase Shuho by Korschelt,
One eye plus access to the center. In this case it was not clear that Black had more than a half eye on the side, but the center was inviting.

That rule of thumb applies even early in the game.
But generally speaking, in the middle game the center begins to became increasingly important, and is usually prominent by move 100 or so. (See
https://senseis.xmp.net/?PointPopularityByMoveNumber .) So it should be normal to look for life in the center at moves 127 and 135.

Another focus: Do not approach the opponent's strength. In this game Black made a base close to the opponent's strong wall on both the right and left sides. This was the cause of problems later on. In fact, top human players, as well as bots, will often choose to jump towards the center rather than make a base close to the opponent's strong wall, even though the opponent may choose to prevent a base after the jump. This often happens in the opening.
Yet another focus: Combining attack and defense. In this game each player had the opportunity to make a play on the side which would make eye shape for himself and take away potential eye shape from the opponent. Those are normally big plays. Moi, I did not learn about such plays until I was a dan player, but their importance is useful knowledge, and, once you are aware of it, not very difficult to spot.
(;CA[UTF-8]ST[2]AP[GOWrite:3.0.15]GM[1]FF[4]SZ[19]WR[3k]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]RU[Japanese]BR[4k]PW[Opponent]RE[B+Time]GN[ ]PB[BlindGroup]TM[1800]DT[2019-03-19]KM[0.5]FG[259:]PM[2]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]
;B[pd]BL[1789.727]
;W[pp]WL[1797.889]
;B[dd]BL[1787.614]
;W[dp]WL[1795.541]
;B[qq]BL[1785.062]
;W[qp]WL[1786.212]
;B[pq]BL[1783.58]
;W[oq]WL[1784.863]
;B[or]BL[1782.529]
;W[nr]WL[1783.486]
;B[nq]BL[1781.241]
;W[op]WL[1781.984]
;B[mr]BL[1780.711]
;W[pr]WL[1780.279]
;B[ns]BL[1780.174]
;W[qr]WL[1778.716]
;B[cq]BL[1779.438]
;W[cp]WL[1770.286]
;B[dq]BL[1777.673]
;W[eq]WL[1768.951]
;B[er]BL[1776.43]
;W[fr]WL[1767.789]
;B[fq]BL[1774.994]
;W[ep]WL[1766.533]
;B[gr]BL[1774.416]
;W[dr]WL[1765.022]
;B[fs]BL[1773.819]
;W[cr]WL[1763.714]
(
;B[qj]C[*** See variation.]BL[1763.334]
;W[cf]WL[1757.341]
;B[fc]BL[1758.948]
;W[bd]WL[1754.853]
(
;B[nc]C[*** See variation.]BL[1740.874]
;W[cc]WL[1750.696]
(
;B[jd]C[*** See variation.]BL[1729.982]
;W[dh]WL[1747.836]
(
;B[cj]C[I don't think this was a good move. White should have pincered and denied me a base. Expanding control of the right side now seems like the bigger move. Plus, white needs two moves to control the left.
*** Yes, not so good by itself. See coments in variation 1. Also see variation 2.]BL[1705.841]
(
;C[*** As you say, the pincer is better.]W[ci]WL[1741.32]
(
;B[bq]C[Can't nobi off the kick because of the pincer... Resigned myself to having a weak group...
*** Actually, the bots do not mind the tachi. See variations.]BL[1703.396]
;W[br]WL[1738.024]
(
;B[bo]C[*** Too close. See variations for good alternatives.]BL[1692.69]
;W[bp]WL[1736.098]
(
;B[cm]C[*** Not so good, as you discovered. Too close to the White strength. See variations.]BL[1691.177]
;C[*** Ouch!]W[dj]WL[1731.969]
;B[ck]BL[1688.339]
;W[qd]WL[1724.242]
;B[qe]BL[1656.739]
;C[*** Good!]W[pe]WL[1662.505]
(
;B[od]C[*** Not good. Makes the O-17 stone look silly. See variation.]BL[1615.865]
;W[qf]WL[1635.876]
;B[re]BL[1610.231]
;W[rf]WL[1634.655]
(
;B[pf]C[*** Too early. See variation.]BL[1602.543]
(
;C[*** See variation.]W[oe]WL[1632.244]
(
;B[ne]C[*** See variation.]BL[1597.485]
;W[of]WL[1629.665]
;B[nf]BL[1595.038]
(
;C[*** See variation.]W[pg]WL[1613.851]
;B[og]BL[1592.865]
;W[pf]WL[1612.163]
;B[rd]C[*** Good.]BL[1591.184]
;W[qc]WL[1609.916]
;B[rc]BL[1588.552]
;W[oh]WL[1607.595]
(
;B[rq]C[I think the order in the variatio nis better.
I think the connection is better. See variation 2.]BL[1555.538]
;W[rr]WL[1603.104]
;B[ro]C[*** Too close, as already noted.]BL[1554.136]
;W[rp]WL[1601.294]
(
;B[qm]C[*** Also too close to the White strength. See variations.]BL[1553.609]
;C[*** Ponnuki is very lucky.]W[ng]WL[1598.074]
(
;C[Also, considered A and B. C is also big. I felt like those ponnukis on the bottom were weak -- particularly with the additional weak group of mine on the left.
*** The Black ponnukis are OK. Ponnuki is very lucky. This Black play is too defensive and yields overconcentration. See variations 2 and 3.
It looks like White is ahead.
]LB[ef:C][lg:B][oj:A]B[jp]BL[1500.044]
;W[mp]WL[1572.748]
(
;B[lq]C[*** Passive. See variation.]BL[1398.339]
;C[*** Almost incomprehenesible for an SDK. Who cares about one stone?]W[rn]WL[1557.326]
(
;B[rm]C[*** See variation.]BL[1391.595]
(
;C[*** See variation.]W[qo]WL[1553.235]
;B[oj]BL[1375.187]
;C[*** Permature. White should tenuki.]W[pk]WL[1545.384]
;B[pj]C[*** Black says thank you.]BL[1356.355]
;C[ ]W[ol]WL[1540.778]
(
;B[qk]C[*** Passive. See variation.]BL[1310.374]
;C[*** Who cares about two stones?]W[on]WL[1519.362]
(
;B[pl]C[*** Who cares about one stone? See variation.]BL[1301.223]
;W[ok]WL[1517.837]
(
;B[pm]C[*** Horrid. Bad shape on top of being passive. See variation.]BL[1299.789]
;C[*** Small.]W[om]WL[1515.87]
(
;B[mj]C[*** See variations. ]BL[1281.98]
(
;C[*** Misses his chance. See variation.]W[lg]WL[1512.243]
(
;B[le]C[*** Defensive. See variation.]BL[1269.88]
;W[li]WL[1502.396]
(
;B[mi]C[*** Unclear what your aim is. See variation.]BL[1243.741]
;C[*** White says thank you.]W[mh]WL[1500.07]
(
;B[jg]C[*** Attack! But White has a good reply. See variation and variation for next.]BL[1233.243]
(
;W[hc]WL[1494.631]
(
;B[ic]C[*** Why strengthen White? See variation.]BL[1146.158]
;W[hd]WL[1489.521]
;B[ff]BL[1143.737]
;W[fb]WL[1487.059]
;B[eb]BL[1126.248]
;C[*** Gives Black a good play. See variation for next.]W[ec]WL[1474.378]
(
;B[fd]C[*** See variation.]BL[1088.429]
;W[db]WL[1470.575]
;B[gb]BL[1085.771]
;W[ea]WL[1469.101]
;B[hb]BL[1044.754]
(
;C[*** White missed his chance again.See variation.]W[kf]WL[1448.389]
;B[if]BL[1023.65]
;W[ke]WL[1444.682]
;B[kd]BL[1017.904]
;C[*** Futile, OC.]W[je]WL[1443.107]
;B[ie]BL[1001.17]
;W[id]WL[1437.9]
;B[ib]BL[985.884]
;W[ld]WL[1423.21]
(
;B[lc]C[*** Passive. See variation.]BL[972.162]
;W[me]WL[1400.529]
;B[md]BL[962.923]
(
;C[*** Miniscule. See variation.]W[mf]WL[1398.787]
;B[kh]BL[920.515]
;W[lh]WL[1394.78]
(
;B[jj]C[*** See variation.]BL[910.498]
;C[*** Bravo! But White is behind. And this is not much of an attack, now.]W[ri]WL[1377.603]
(
;B[qi]C[*** Small. See variation.]BL[866.425]
;W[qh]WL[1374.366]
(
;B[rj]C[*** Not small. But see variation.]BL[864.849]
;W[rh]WL[1370.642]
(
;B[rl]C[*** You do not have to worry about eyes. See variation.]BL[863.392]
;W[bn]WL[1339.158]
(
;B[bm]C[*** See variation. ]BL[858.143]
;W[co]WL[1329.334]
;B[cn]BL[846.075]
;W[ao]WL[1326.911]
;B[bi]BL[833.154]
;W[bh]WL[1324.241]
(
;B[ai]C[I did not play this well. I should have realized that I wasn't going to be able make a base and prepared to jump to the center.
*** This is a stage of the game where the center is important, a stage reached in many games. So don't worry about making life only on the side. See variationz 2 and 3. ]BL[831.916]
;W[bl]WL[1318.19]
;B[al]BL[828.014]
;W[bk]WL[1316.214]
;B[bj]BL[800.995]
;W[ak]WL[1309.831]
;B[cl]BL[760.816]
;W[el]WL[1205.363]
(
;B[em]C[Saving this group turned out to be a mistake. I think I should have sacraficed to take territory in the center.]BL[722.399]
;W[fm]WL[1201.827]
(
;B[fl]C[*** See variation.
End of comments.]BL[718.433]
;W[ek]WL[1182.298]
;B[fn]C[Could not find a way to get the group out. I played here thinking that I would exchange the group for territory in the center.]BL[597.211]
(
;C[I though I got lucky with thi smove, but looking at it now, white profited significantly from chasing the group.]W[gm]WL[1179.783]
;B[en]BL[594.779]
;W[fp]WL[1175.528]
;B[gn]BL[580.316]
;W[gq]WL[1173.4]
;B[hq]BL[568.279]
;W[fr]WL[1169.747]
;B[hr]BL[558.743]
;W[hp]WL[1159.655]
(
;B[hm]BL[552.843]
;W[gl]WL[1157.168]
;B[hl]BL[551.902]
;W[gk]WL[1154.443]
;B[in]BL[537.937]
;W[ih]WL[1140.641]
(
;B[ce]BL[513.458]
;W[df]WL[1099.973]
;B[ed]BL[477.734]
;W[ki]WL[1092.879]
;B[gh]BL[409.237]
;W[ji]WL[1081.161]
;B[be]BL[387.599]
;W[lf]WL[1055.068]
;B[bb]BL[360.957]
;W[cd]WL[1051.054]
;B[dc]BL[348.938]
;W[de]WL[1026.281]
;B[cb]BL[339.239]
;W[bf]WL[1021.693]
;B[ca]BL[325.1]
;W[ld]WL[1004.387]
;B[mn]BL[274.646]
;W[kc]WL[981.54]
;B[jc]BL[268.956]
;W[mo]WL[932.691]
;B[ln]BL[258.706]
;W[lk]WL[927.709]
;B[jk]BL[214.27]
;W[ip]WL[918.795]
;B[jq]BL[200.552]
;W[iq]WL[914.784]
;B[ir]BL[198.954]
;W[es]WL[913.295]
;B[gs]BL[193.169]
;W[nd]WL[906.302]
;B[ne]BL[190.466]
;W[kl]WL[878.434]
;B[hk]BL[146.047]
;W[gj]WL[873.365]
(
;B[ig]C[Bad shape...]BL[86.921]
;W[jh]WL[839.298]
;B[kg]BL[84.494]
;W[hg]WL[831.888]
;B[hf]BL[73.957]
;W[gg]WL[825.924]
;B[fg]BL[56.82]
;W[gf]WL[793.463]
;B[ge]BL[50.017]
;W[hh]WL[791.093]
;B[he]BL[48.963]
;W[fh]WL[789.016]
;B[eh]BL[45.236]
;C[The rest of the game is just relatively even endgame exchanges with a final score of B+15.5. [End Analysis.]]W[fi]WL[785.498]
;B[bc]BL[25.435]
;W[ae]WL[779.277]
;B[eg]BL[5.89]
;W[am]WL[763.099]
;B[aj]BL[2.895]
;W[an]WL[760.888]
;B[al]BL[1.018]
;W[ei]WL[714.213]
;B[ac]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[ee]WL[694.545]
;B[fe]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[se]WL[691.699]
;B[qb]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[sd]WL[687.723]
;B[sc]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[sf]WL[686.423]
;B[dg]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[cg]WL[683.359]
;B[ah]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[ag]WL[680.881]
;B[ml]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[mk]WL[666.694]
;B[ll]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[kk]WL[660.006]
;B[lo]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[lp]WL[654.482]
;B[kp]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[jr]WL[572.433]
;B[kr]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[ho]WL[544.441]
;B[hn]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[jo]WL[539.879]
;B[io]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[jm]WL[445.998]
;B[jn]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[hj]WL[441.254]
;B[jl]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[km]WL[437.645]
;B[go]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[gp]WL[434.935]
;B[sn]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[so]WL[431.799]
;B[sm]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[ij]WL[407.429]
;B[si]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[sh]WL[405.164]
;B[sj]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[ni]WL[402.054]
;B[nj]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[oi]WL[400.67]
;B[np]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[no]WL[396.807]
;B[nn]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[oo]WL[392.03]
;B[mq]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[ps]WL[388.345]
;B[os]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[kn]WL[379.358]
;B[ko]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[ik]WL[376.416]
;B[il]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[pi]WL[366.354]
;B[qn]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[ro]WL[361.606]
;B[dl]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[dn]WL[355.293]
;B[dm]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[do]WL[352.588]
;B[le]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[pn]WL[247.909]
;B[ld]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[nf]WL[240.995]
;B[nd]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[nk]WL[207.966]
;B[tt]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[dk]WL[197.677]
;B[lm]OB[5]BL[30.0]
;W[nm]WL[193.26]
;B[tt]OB[5]BL[30.0]
)
(
;B[hg];W[ig];B[jf];W[jh];B[gf];W[kg]
)
)
(
;B[gi];W[fg];B[gg];W[fh];B[gh];W[ef];B[ee];W[de];B[ed];W[hj];B[hi];W[ij];B[ii];W[ki];B[ji];W[cd]
)
)
(
;B[go];W[gp];B[gl];W[hm];B[gj];W[ho];B[hn];W[in];B[im];W[jm];B[il];W[jo]
)
)
(
;W[dm];B[gm];W[dn];B[ln]
)
)
(
;B[en];W[fn];B[ek];W[dk];B[dl]
;C[*** Black to play lives, but White has good thickness. Not so good.]W[fl]
)
)
(
;B[fm];W[em];B[fn];W[en];B[ln]
)
)
(
;B[aj];W[bk];B[bl];W[ah];B[el]
)
(
;B[ei]C[*** Since this threatens to cut with atari, we can be pretty sure White will simply connect. If not, we will have an adantageous fight.]
;W[di]
;B[el]C[*** There are probably better plays, but this leads to easy life, which is all Black needs to win, and probably a good bit of territory in the center, as the stones lie.]
(
;C[***If White goes after Black's eye shape here, . . .]W[en]
;B[fk]C[*** Black will make life and territory in the center.]
)
(
;W[ej]
;B[gl]C[*** This may not be the best reply, but again, life and a bit of territory are easy to come by.]
)
)
(
;B[el]C[*** Even without the peep, this makes for easy living.]
(
;W[en];B[gl]
)
(
;W[fk];B[fl];W[gk]
;B[fn]C[*** Again, probably not best, but easy.]
)
(
;W[gl]
;B[en]C[*** Easy life.]
)
)
)
(
;B[cn]C[*** Again, this forces a ponnuki to capture the Black stone. It also strengthens Black a bit in the center.]
)
)
(
;B[lj]C[*** There is plenty of room to make anohter eye, if need be.]
)
)
(
;B[lj]
)
)
(
;B[lj]C[*** Big. These center turns are bigger than they look.]
)
)
(
;B[qh]
)
)
(
;W[ri]
)
)
(
;B[lf];W[kg];B[qh]
)
)
(
;W[ri]
)
)
(
;B[dc];W[ed];B[fd];W[ee];B[gb];W[db];B[fa]
)
)
(
;B[gd]C[*** Standard play.]
)
)
(
;C[*** Who is attacking whom?]W[ri]
)
)
(
;B[qh]
)
)
(
;B[qh]C[*** Of course.]
)
)
(
;B[qh]C[*** Still. here. Still big.]
)
)
(
;C[*** Combine attack and defense.]W[ri]
)
)
(
;B[qh]C[*** Where else?]
)
(
;B[ni]C[*** If you are going to run out, make the shape play.]
)
)
(
;B[qh]C[*** Still here. Big.]
)
)
(
;B[qh]C[*** Still big. White's attack has weakened his own group.]
)
)
(
;B[qh]C[*** Combines attack and defense.]
;W[qk];B[rk]
(
;W[rl]
;B[ql]C[*** Capture the cutting stone.]
;W[rj];B[sl];W[ri]
;B[rh]C[*** Oops!]
)
(
;W[rj]
;B[ri]C[*** Capture the cutting stone.]
;W[rl]
;B[sj]C[*** No problem.]
)
)
)
(
;C[*** Obviously better locally. But White should tenuki.]W[qn]
)
)
(
;B[qn]C[*** A little better, as it forces White to capture the Black stone with ponnuki intead of just swallowing it up.]
)
)
(
;B[oj]C[*** Tenuki!]
;W[lq];B[np];W[no];B[lr];W[kq]
;B[mq]C[*** Black lives.]
;W[lo];B[mn]
;C[*** In sente!
Ponnuki is very lucky.]W[mo]
)
)
(
;B[oj]
(
;W[jq];B[lg];W[mh];B[ni];W[nh];B[lj];W[pi];B[pj];W[qh];B[ir];W[jr];B[kr];W[is];B[hs];W[js];B[iq];W[kq];B[lq]
)
(
;W[iq];B[lg];W[mi];B[ir];W[jr];B[hq];W[is];B[hr]
)
)
(
;B[mo]C[*** This double keima is OK.]
)
(
;B[go]C[*** So is this one.]
)
)
(
;B[ng]C[*** Better to attack this group.]
;W[pi];B[qh];W[ph];B[ok]
)
(
;B[ql]C[*** Better, as a base. Not so close.]
)
(
;B[oj];W[ng]
;B[qm]C[*** The jump supports this extension.]
)
)
(
;B[oj];W[ng];B[rq];W[rr];B[ro];W[rp];B[qm]
)
(
;B[ng]C[*** Threatens to cut.]
;W[pi];B[rq];W[rr];B[rn];W[ro]
;B[ok]C[*** Double keima, aiming at the White group. Note that it is a jump towards the center. With it in place Black can then make a base.]
)
)
(
;C[*** Rather better.]W[og]
)
)
(
;B[rd]C[*** Transpose to previous variation.]
)
)
(
;W[rd];B[oe]
;C[*** Obviously good for White.]W[se]
)
)
(
;B[rd];W[qc];B[rc]
;C[*** If White does not give up the corner. then . . . .]W[qb]
;B[pf];W[oe];B[ne];W[of];B[pg];W[nf]
;B[qg]C[*** Black makes nice territory.]
)
)
(
;B[qc];W[rd]
;B[re]C[*** With no room in the corner, a difficult fight for White.]
)
)
(
;B[dj]C[*** Better, as you make real strength. Also, you move towards the center instead of the White strength.]
)
(
;B[qe]C[*** Maybe best. Treat the Black stones on the left side lightly.]
)
)
(
;B[ei]
)
(
;B[fp]
)
(
;B[go]
)
(
;B[bn];W[bo]
(
;B[dj]C[*** OK.]
)
(
;B[ej]C[*** OK.]
)
(
;B[ei]C[*** OK.]
)
(
;B[qe]C[*** Fine. Because White has replied to the Black stones on the left side, Black can treat them lightly, and even throw them away.]
)
)
)
(
;B[dj]C[*** OK.]
)
(
;B[ej]C[*** Also OK. Lighter.]
)
(
;B[ei]C[*** Also good. Light.]
)
)
(
;W[cl]
;B[ej]C[Not good...]
)
)
(
;B[rq]C[*** Good play.]
;W[rr]
(
;B[ro]C[*** Too close. White's reply makes it weak. See variation.]
;W[rp];B[qm]
)
(
;B[rn]
;C[*** Now the Black stone is not so weak. See continuation.]W[ro]
;B[bq];W[br]
;B[fp]C[*** Reduces the White dame to 4 while extending the Black moyo on the bottom side. Big.]
)
)
(
;B[bq];W[br];B[bn];W[bo]
;B[cj]C[*** A better way to invade the left side.]
)
)
(
;B[id]C[*** More solid. White's invasion here in the actual game was not easy to handle.]
)
)
(
;B[bq]C[*** Looks like a good time for this play, to make sure any White moyo on the left side has some bad aji.]
)
)
(
;B[qf]C[*** Probably better, given the White thickness in the bottom right corner.]
)
)
BTW, you ask where did the points go. Well, I suppose, Black had some potential in the center to top left, but White made territory there in the attack against Black's left side group.