Your fuseki was good enough to be SDK. Your tactical play - when you actually chose to fight - looked good enough for an SDK.
The recurring problem was between those two: as soon as the middle game began and the stones began getting close to each other, you repeatedly backed down when you could have had a fight that you could have won.
In particular, look at my comments to moves 18, 36, 50, 104, and 124 in the diagram below. White made overplays, and you folded, despite the fact that your fighting skills are good enough to make white regret his overplays. You only fought when you were absolutely forced to, when white invaded in the lower left and lower right corners.
Change this one habit and you will be SDK in a month.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]RU[Japanese]SZ[19]HA[2]KM[0.50]TM[1500]OT[5x30 byo-yomi]PW[(White)]PB[blade90]WR[14k]BR[16k]DT[2011-01-18]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]AB[pd][dp]RE[B+1.50];W[dd]WL[1496.75];B[pq]BL[1495.951];W[jd]WL[1491.76]C[JB: Not the best play by your opponent. Sides are not as big as corners.];B[cf]BL[1487.036];W[gd]WL[1477.115];B[ci]BL[1479.265];W[qf]WL[1472.926];B[nc]BL[1468.437];W[pi]WL[1459.699](;B[jq]BL[1428.232]C[JB: Up to here, if someone told me that black was a dan player, I would have had no trouble believing it.
Corners are biiger than sides. See variations.];W[cn]WL[1437.808];B[cl]BL[1417.914]C[JB: Good move!];W[en]WL[1432.614];B[fp]BL[1411.77];W[fk]WL[1425.445];B[ql]BL[1396.507]C[JB: An aggressive move. You're passing up the opportunity to play the safe, simple shimari at R5 in favor of an attack. I'm not saying that it is bad, just noting its character.];W[po]WL[1417.748]C[JB: Note that you are now in a position in which you have pincered his stone, but you are one move ahead.](;B[qo]BL[1391.163]C[JB: This invites white to become strong while you connect. By choosing to connect R8 with Q3, you have effectively made his stone an attacker, and committed yourself to being the defender. This is completely inconsistent with your previous move. See variations];W[pn]WL[1412.62];B[qn]BL[1388.586];W[pm]WL[1411.731](;B[np]BL[1336.338]C[JB: As EdLee notes, this is the wrong move. Your stones on the right are too thin. Ed's suggestion of R7 is solid, though I might have gone for the greedier Q4. R4 is not unreasonable either. See variations.];W[qm]WL[1405.676];B[rm]BL[1333.919];W[pl]WL[1404.984];B[qk]BL[1332.106];W[pk]WL[1403.603];B[rj]BL[1319.807];W[qp]WL[1389.302];B[pp]BL[1310.771];W[qq]WL[1382.907];B[ro]BL[1268.653];W[qi]WL[1375.832];B[qr]BL[1256.766]C[JB: What happens if you tenuki. Can he live?];W[lo]WL[1361.824](;B[lp]BL[1254.621]C[JB: Again, you treat a weak stone as if it were stronger than it actually is, and commit yourself to being the defender,];W[mo]WL[1359.223];B[mp]BL[1250.894];W[kp]WL[1355.214];B[kq]BL[1248.757];W[jp]WL[1351.461];B[ip]BL[1245.165];W[io]WL[1345.333];B[hp]BL[1242.916];W[op]WL[1334.79];B[oq]BL[1239.987];W[no]WL[1329.712];B[mq]BL[1208.769]C[JB: You have let white turn his weak stone at M5 into something significant. ( And, BTW, N3 is totally unnecessary. You can capture P4 if he tries anything. )];W[qj]WL[1308.267]C[JB: What, exactly, is he threatening? See variation.](;B[rk]BL[1205.022];W[cp]WL[1297.718];B[cq]BL[1198.307];W[co]WL[1287.162];B[bq]BL[1186.111];W[dq]WL[1280.046]C[JB: Stay solid with E3. Where will he go?];B[dr]BL[1179.362];W[eq]WL[1271.61];B[ep]BL[1177.045];W[er]WL[1267.55];B[gr]BL[1142.168];W[cr]WL[1262.578];B[br]BL[1139.898];W[ds]WL[1260.57];B[bs]BL[1125.89];W[fr]WL[1252.688];B[fs]BL[1120.827];W[bp]WL[1230.543];B[fq]BL[1107.3];W[gq]WL[1224.495];B[hq]BL[1102.987];W[hr]WL[1211.744];B[gp]BL[1100.249];W[gs]WL[1208.45];B[hs]BL[1097.871];W[aq]WL[1199.443];B[cs]BL[1093.612];W[ar]WL[1191.438];B[dr]BL[1090.778];W[pr]WL[1154.591];B[es]BL[1057.975];W[rr]WL[1148.26];B[rq]BL[1056.87];W[qs]WL[1145.908];B[rp]BL[1055.365];W[qr]WL[1137.555];B[or]BL[1053.871];W[os]WL[1134.072];B[ns]BL[1051.825];W[nr]WL[1128.614];B[ps]BL[1044.848];W[ms]WL[1124.006];B[oo]BL[1042.696];W[os]WL[1122.325];B[mr]BL[1040.259];W[on]WL[1113.834];B[nq]BL[1029.98];W[dk]WL[1085.009];B[ck]BL[1027.659];W[dj]WL[1083.537];B[cj]BL[1025.626];W[dh]WL[1080.585];B[ch]BL[1023.056];W[dg]WL[1079.801]C[JB: Read it out! Can white C14 really hurt you? See variation.](;B[cg]BL[1021.096];W[df]WL[1071.722];B[cd]BL[1018.998];W[ce]WL[1067.132];B[be]BL[1017.54];W[de]WL[1065.86];B[cc]BL[1016.026];W[dc]WL[1062.605];B[db]BL[1006.441];W[eb]WL[1060.638];B[cb]BL[1004.318];W[mf]WL[1052.329];B[kc]BL[992.68];W[jc]WL[1049.052];B[kb]BL[989.548];W[kd]WL[1045.322];B[ld]BL[987.525];W[le]WL[1043.78];B[md]BL[986.011];W[oe]WL[1034.712](;B[od]BL[983.709]C[JB: One last time: what is he threatening?
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