hyperpape wrote:I will say your post where you write "....UNRIGHTFULLY...." is a bit rude. Not enough to justify dismissing you, but you're not doing yourself any favors.
Unrightfully means unfairly or unjustly. If you agree with his position that the KGS admins acted wrongly, then it is merely a statement of fact. There is nothing inherently inflammatory about it.
However, I do agree that he didn't do himself any favors by using that word. When dealing with admins (or anyone else in power for that matter), it is often best to prostrate yourself and take the lowest posture possible. Here's a template for dealing with admins:
- First, begin with an obligatory offering of brown-nosing platitudes: I love KGS very much. It is a wonderful server and the admins do a great job of keeping it a friendly place.
- Now, get into your issue by describing it as a result of miscommunication rather than any intentional wrongdoing on the part of those in power: However, recently I was banned from KGS by admin X. Admin X said that I was doing this, this, and this, but that is all a misunderstanding. What really happened was that, that, and that. I understand that it is hard work being an admin and that there will be occasional mistakes. I think that this is one of them. Unfortunately, I believe that my communication skills leave much to be desired and resulted in some confusion. (It is critical that this problem is not their fault!!)
- Finish up with more cheerful rear-end-kissing: Thank you so much for your time in responding to my request, and also for your efforts in making KGS a wonderful place. I hope to be unbanned soon so that I can enter my go paradise once again!

Real life counterparts of KGS admins are much worse. I have had a green card application rejected because of a clerical error by a government employee. That is, the government employee checked the wrong box while processing the application. I appealed and the appeal was handled by the same person who made the mistake. Second rejection. My lawyer told me to just file the same application again (because it would take more money and time to sue) and it went through. I wasted 16 months and lots of money because of one stubborn and incompetent government "admin", but there was no way to get justice. Better get used to it!
An important exception: If you are a paying customer, then always take the most forceful position.
The lesson, as always: The real world is always worse than the internet. Be thankful that KGS admins are not worse than they are.