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I can only be invisible if no one is looking

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A co-worker has expressed an interest in learning the game better -- he's played before.

I've setup a board between our desks, but he'll only make a move (or even look at the board), when I'm not around. Its actually not the first time I've encountered this personality type -- but I don't understand it.
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Well... It looks like he suffers from a form of anxiety. That's nothing extraordinary and the list of possible causes could fill an encyclopedia.
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xed_over wrote:A co-worker has expressed an interest in learning the game better -- he's played before.

I've setup a board between our desks, but he'll only make a move (or even look at the board), when I'm not around. Its actually not the first time I've encountered this personality type -- but I don't understand it.
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You are probably playing against the janitor. :)
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Some people don't like it when people watch what they're doing. They sometimes feel like they're being judged.
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I actually like to watch my opponents’ faces, especially their eyes, and how they move accross the board. Also their mouths may give away a lot unintentionally. And the other way ’round, if I sense my opponent watch me, I ostentatively look at parts of the board that I’m currently not really interested in, and sometimes I look happy and sometimes I look sad :twisted:
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Bonobo wrote:I actually like to watch my opponents’ faces, especially their eyes, and how they move accross the board. Also their mouths may give away a lot unintentionally. And the other way ’round, if I sense my opponent watch me, I ostentatively look at parts of the board that I’m currently not really interested in, and sometimes I look happy and sometimes I look sad :twisted:
rofl, I do this exact same thing!
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Bonobo wrote:I actually like to watch my opponents’ faces, especially their eyes, and how they move accross the board. Also their mouths may give away a lot unintentionally. And the other way ’round, if I sense my opponent watch me, I ostentatively look at parts of the board that I’m currently not really interested in, and sometimes I look happy and sometimes I look sad :twisted:
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Re: I can only be invisible if no one is looking

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xed_over wrote:A co-worker has expressed an interest in learning the game better -- he's played before.

I've setup a board between our desks, but he'll only make a move (or even look at the board), when I'm not around. Its actually not the first time I've encountered this personality type -- but I don't understand it.
Hmm, Will Hunting Syndrome... I recommend a psychiatrist, possibly with roots in his community.
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