B+R.
My thoughts on the game combined with Mingjiu's commentary:

move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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[go]$$Bc move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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$$ | . . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . X . . . |
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$$ | . . . X . . . . O . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . X . . . O . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . X . O X X . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . O . . . X O O . . . . . B . . . . . |
$$ | . . O , X . . . . X . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . O X X . . O . . . . . . W . . . . . |
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$$ ---------------------------------------[/go]
The marked exchange is pretty bad for white. I think my approach was reckless. Taking the corner is better.

move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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[go]$$Bc move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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$$ | . . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . X . . . |
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$$ | . . . X . . . . O . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . X . . . O . 5 . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . X . O X X . . 4 . 3 . . . |
$$ | . O . . . X O O . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . O , X . . . . X . . . 2 . X . . . |
$$ | . O X X . . O . . . . . . O 1 . . . . |
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$$ ---------------------------------------[/go]
Mingjiu recommends this sequence, to attack both sides.

move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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[go]$$Wc move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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$$ | . . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . X . . . |
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8 . . . |
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$$ | . . . X . . . . O . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . X . . . O . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . X . O X X . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . O . . . X O O . . . . . X . . 4 6 . |
$$ | . . O , X . . . . X . . . . . X 3 . . |
$$ | . O X X . . O . . . . . . O . 2 1 . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 . 7 . |
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$$ ---------------------------------------[/go]
I should hane first, allowing black to get 6 is too big, according to Mingjiu.

move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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[go]$$Bc move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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$$ | . . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . X . . . |
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$$ | . . . X . . . . O . . a . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . X . . . O . . . . . . X . . |
$$ | . . . O . . X . O X X . . . . . X O . |
$$ | . O . . . X O O . . . . . X . . X O . |
$$ | . . O , X . . . . X . . . . . X O . . |
$$ | . O X X . . O . . . . . . O X X O . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . X O O . . |
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$$ ---------------------------------------[/go]
Mingjiu: Black should finish the joseki. Playing at a is small. Conversely, however, I should hane instead, since you played that knight's move, the hane is much better than the knight jump I made.

move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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[go]$$Bc move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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$$ | . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . X O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . X , . O . . . , . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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$$ | . . . W . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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$$ | . . 5 . . . . . . , . . . . . , . . . |
$$ | . 6 2 3 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . 7 1 X 4 . . . O . . X . . . . O . . |
$$ | . . . . . X . . . O . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . X . O X X . . . . . X O . |
$$ | . O . . . X O O . . . . . X . . X O . |
$$ | . . O , X . . . . X . . . . . X O . . |
$$ | . O X X . . O . . . . . . O X X O . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . X O O . . |
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$$ ---------------------------------------[/go]
This plan isn't necessarily overplay, but the fighting will be hard for both sides.

move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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[go]$$Wc move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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$$ | . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . X O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . X , . O . . . , . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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$$ | . . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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$$ | . X O W . . . . . , . . . . . , . . . |
$$ | . X X O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . O O X X . . . O . . X . . . . O . . |
$$ | . . . . . X . . . O . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . X . O X X . . . . . X O . |
$$ | . O . . . X O O . . . . . X . . X O . |
$$ | . . O , X . . . . X . . . . . X O . . |
$$ | . O X X . . O . . . . . . O X X O . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . X O O . . |
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$$ ---------------------------------------[/go]
This was a huge mistake too. If I play here, it's much much better for white. I misread, thinking that I could capture if I extended.

move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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[go]$$Wc move # I don't care either. - Prisoners: B=0, W=0
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$$ | . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . X O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . X , O O . . . , . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . X X X . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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$$ | . . X . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . X O . . . X O . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . X O O . O O . . , . . . . . , . . . |
$$ | . X X O . . X X . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . O O X X . . . O . . X . . . . O . . |
$$ | . . . O . X . X O O . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . X X O . X X . O X X . . . . . X O . |
$$ | . O O . X X O O 6 . . . . X . . X O . |
$$ | . . O , X O O . . X . . . . . X O . . |
$$ | . O X X . X O . 4 1 2 . . O X X O . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . 5 3 . . . X O O . . |
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$$ ---------------------------------------[/go]
I misread this sequence, I forgot you had 6 until I play this out. From there, I think any winning chances I had go down the drain.
All in all, I think I played really recklessly this game, but I don't really think we're far apart at all in strength. I think I can beat you if I played more calmly. This kind of overaggression is usually what I use to destroy KGS 1-3d, so you're a much more balanced player than I first thought.
Best of three, switch colors, continue with even games?