(just to do a bit more than only click “like”
)MJK wrote:[..] I will for sure read all of Robert's books and will post a review, not a summary, every time I finish reading a single book, and this will be in 'Go Book Reviews'.
Thank you, MJK! This was all I needed to read to be happy in this regard, and I happily anticipate reading your reviews, fondly remembering how much I enjoyed the few of your “lovelove” posts I was able to read (sadly I had/have too little time to read all of them).
I was excited to see this thread, and with the emerging discussion I swayed first towards the one, then towards the other side (and then the pendulum stopped at this post

), slowly understanding more of what was going on. There are points in both sides’ argumentation which I can agree with (as can be seen from my “like”ing

)
Anyway, thanks again: IMHO, your reaction is mindful and thoughtful, empathic, respectful, wise,
and friendly. I wish I always could be that way.
And to explain my forementioned excitement …
I have three books by RJ:
- First Fundamentals
- Fighting Fundamentals
- [Something Joseki]
The last of these goes waaaay over my head, so it’s possible I won’t have touched it again when I sink into the grave, but in the other two I read. Sometimes for two weeks in a row, perhaps half an hour per day. Then again, I quit reading for a month or two, only to take it up again later.
I enjoy reading these books, I often have a … “feeling” … of … how to say … “satisfaction” or something when chewing through a paragraph or two, because … again that “feeling” … to have understood something. Being a tendencially rather emotion-driven person than ratio-driven, it’s often that, even after reading these very rational words, I cannot explain in words what it is that I believe to have understood, it’s kind of a LEGO world in my head, like I’d have to
dance the explanation of a piece of music (as somebody wiser than me once said).
Therefore … I have a “feeling” that these books are
quite good, but the only arguments I have for this are … vague feelings. And a 13k’s feelings are not worth a lot, right?

And therefore I’m excited to read what a much stronger person who has actually read those books might have to say about them, a person who is openminded and not full of prejudice.
Ah, and BTW, there is a Turkish proverb I appreciate: “Learn what your teacher teaches, not what he lives!”.
Cordially,
Tom
p.s.: Yes, I really edited this post to add a comma.