Araban wrote:Really HKA? First off, it's not hard to use CTRL+F to find the particular player who he was referring to and the particular member is a frequent poster, took me less than a minute. Also, as I said almost immediately afterwards, I realized that I took what was an ambiguous comment and misinterpreted it, thereby jumping the gun and making an accusation so I gave him the apology.
I just find it funny you would bring this up because we had a similar confrontation just two months ago when you also misinterpreted a status update I posted on facebook and called me out on it, accusing me of still holding a grudge against you over a GD feud. I still didn't receive an apologize from you for that either, and in fact it was I who apologized to you for posting something that could be misinterpreted - the equivalence of Magicwand apologizing to me for writing an ambiguous post rather than me to him. For you to criticize me like that is just downright hypocrisy.
Well, as a self proclaimed luddite, I had no idea it was so easy CTRL whatever and check that.
My computer and facebook naivete was responsible for the misunderstanding we had there. As you know, you played a prank where you said that the facebook user referenced by a link was a real a - hole. I clicked and there was my profile. I did not realize that it was a set up so that anyone who clicked would see their own profile. Did I call you out? Well, I sent you a PRIVATE message, not one to all of your friends, or a whole forum that you are a moderator for. You explained, and I responded, again, PRIVATELY "I thought that might be the case, but paranoia and lack of sleep after a weekend in the ER made it difficult to immediatlely appreciate the "humor"."
Now, I would agree that is not an apology. And I do not really want to debate whether I needed to apologize for being hurt by a prank that was meant to, at least momentarily, upset people.
But what I will say is that I did acknowlege I misinterpreted what you did, which is all that you did with Magicwand, until Violence and I made our comments. I thought you owed him an apology, and now you have done so, so that is great.
Regardless, I will, as fwiffo says - take it outside. If there is one thing I cannot stand, it is a hypocrite, and if I am moderator defined here as one, then I am gone.