A few comments on that game :
FUSEKI/JOSEKI
till

I recognize that opening, this is a kobayashi.
Unfortunatly, in my head, kobayashi means :
"don't approach the 3-4 stone as I will get pincered and that will just help black build the bottom."
while this is not completly wrong, I think "don't do A ONE SPACE approach ..." would be more precise.
Missing that precision, I played

far aways of the 3-4 stones...
After the game, I went to
http://ps.waltheri.net/ and checked what was the most played move in this situation.
I saw this

(or 'a') :
$$W
$$ +---------------------------------------+
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . , . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . , . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . a 1 . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . X . . . . . , . . . |
$$ | . . . . . X . . . . . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ +---------------------------------------+
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[go]$$W
$$ +---------------------------------------+
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . , . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . , . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . O . . . . . . . . . . . . a 1 . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . X . . . . . , . . . |
$$ | . . . . . X . . . . . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ +---------------------------------------+[/go]
That's really interesting for me as I saw that joseki in a book :
$$W
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . X , . . . . . , .
$$ | . . . 2 . 1 . . 3 . .
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ +----------------------
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[go]$$W
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . X , . . . . . , .
$$ | . . . 2 . 1 . . 3 . .
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ +----------------------[/go]
And I was thinking "oh cool, at least one that is super easy to remind..." but in the game,
I really failed to see that this joseki may be a good choice for that situation...
LIFE AND DEAPTH
situation at move 33 :
white to play :
$$Bc
$$ . . . . . . . |
$$ . . . X X . . |
$$ . . X O . . . |
$$ . . X , O . . |
$$ . . . X O . . |
$$ . . X O . b . |
$$ . . . . a . . |
$$ --------------+
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[go]$$Bc
$$ . . . . . . . |
$$ . . . X X . . |
$$ . . X O . . . |
$$ . . X , O . . |
$$ . . . X O . . |
$$ . . X O . b . |
$$ . . . . a . . |
$$ --------------+[/go]
In the game I played 'a', but I think 'b' was the correct move here...
Shape
$$B
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . . X X . . . . X X . . . .
$$ | . . . . . X . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . . X . X . . . X . X . . .
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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[go]$$B
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . . X X . . . . X X . . . .
$$ | . . . . . X . . . . . . . . .
$$ | . . . X . X . . . X . X . . .
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .[/go]
move 44 to 70, I was trying to live, and so tryied to make a lot of 'strong' shape, like the two above

, but I still failed...