I joined KGS and played some games there. I have a nice shiny new 26 kyo rating.
Notes and observations:
some mistakes are killers. The whole game can come crashing down.
I've been somewhat successful at capturing some corners and sides but I'm losing a ton of points in the center.
I was concentrating on one game so much that I completely overlooked the steady stream of insults that my opponent was raining down on me. I only saw it after the game was over. They weren't even creative or funny just dumb but English probably isn't his primary language. I'm not sure what would lead someone to behave like that.
The auto match is pretty cool. The handicap stones I'm getting don't seem to help too much. They mostly just give my opponents more targets to go after.
As suggested, it's easier to find even matches on KGS than the others. I'm (mostly) not taking the drubbings I was on the other sites.
I haven't figured out how to open the games I've played on KGS. I click on them and get a beep but nothing else.
Thanks again for the suggestions.
Tom