I think it depends partly on the nature of the problem.
How quickly do you use up your main time? If you aren't in byo-yomi until the endgame, you're playing very quickly. You have plenty of time to slow down and consider alternative moves by your opponent, and how you'll respond to them.
If the problem is that your opponent is responding to your forcing moves in unexpected ways, maybe you should spend some time studying tesuji. Is it things like, "If I peep here, he has to connect... oh damn, he made a bamboo joint in sente instead!" It may be that your opponent has to connect, or cut, or what have you, but you aren't yet familiar with the broad variety of cat-skinning techniques available in go.
If the problem is that you think your move is sente and he doesn't, well then, you have yourselves a disagreement. Re-read, and figure out whether you should follow up on your threat or respond to his.
So, the possibilities: (i) You should read more slowly and thoroughly. (ii) You know that your opponent needs to do X, but you need to learn more ways for him to do X (i.e., learn new tesuji). (iii) You think your opponent needs to do X, but actually X isn't the biggest thing on the board right now.
But in general, if you think your opponent should do something and he doesn't, that should make you happy, since even if you have to do some more reading
prima facie it seems he's made a mistake, and now you can crush him and drink honeyed mead from his skull!
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