Kirby wrote:I think your argument, Bantari, is that "getting bent out of shape over a silly game on a silly game server" is not worth bothering about.
It seems to me that it would be more convincing if you gave a reason why. I'm not saying that I agree or disagree with you, but since we are talking about the logical structure of your argument, I think that this is the core of the issue.
Sure.
There are two reasons, really.
1) The one already implied - There are so many so much more important and serious things to worry about and to get bent out of shape because of. I will not say much about it, this is not the right place, but I guess we all know this to be true.
2) Futility. Let me elaborate:
As long as there were servers, there were issues. Some servers handle escapers 'badly', so people worry about that. Other have people talking too much, so people worry about that (KGS and the EGR fiasco.) Others are too quiet (like the IGS) and people complain about that... and so on... There will *always* be something to nitpick, and something to get bent out of shape about. And the moment one issue gets solved, another will appear or get into the forefront of attention.
Why? Because we are all different, and there is no pleasing us all at the same time. A developer has to pick some middle-ground to sort-of placate the worst problems, but this is usually done at the expense of other things. So I repeat again - there will always be things to complain about.
So, in practice, you have two choices:
1) Let it bother you, bitch about it, and be generally unhappy, or
2) Find it in yourself to raise above such pettiness and enjoy what you are given a little more.
Also, the specific issue of escapers is especially unimportant, I think. Because it is rooted in a particular moment and very fleeting. Tomorrow you'll laught about it, the next day you forget it altogether. A player escaping rather than admiting defeat will have absolutely no impact on your development as a Go player, not now, not ever.
The only way escaping can impact you is - if you let it!
And then it will impact you negatively, make you get angry, spend your energies on complaining and moaning and groaning and being generally unhappy. Instead - I find it much more productive to shrug it off and just play another game.
These are my reasons.
However - I do agree that there is always the impulse to get upset about such things. It is human. But so is escaping itself. It is up to us to give in to such weaknesses or not. Escapers give in. The rest of us should not.
That's all.