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Re: Phatic politeness

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daniel_the_smith wrote:"No word for X" is nearly always false, and even when it isn't, you can still express the concept with slightly more words.

See: http://languagelog.ldc.upenn.edu/nll/?p=1081

I'd be curious to know the English word for "Schadenfreude" :mrgreen:
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Re: Phatic politeness

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It's "schadenfreude", we borrowed it... :mrgreen:

If that seems like cheating, the second part applies: "...you can still express the concept with slightly more words".

Often when people say a language has no word for X, they're trying to claim that the speakers of the language lack the corresponding concept, which is usually pretty silly.

Of course, there is the one south american tribe that genuinely seems to have no numbers in their language...
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Re: Phatic politeness

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daniel_the_smith wrote:It's "schadenfreude", we borrowed it... :mrgreen:

If that seems like cheating, the second part applies: "...you can still express the concept with slightly more words".

Often when people say a language has no word for X, they're trying to claim that the speakers of the language lack the corresponding concept, which is usually pretty silly.

Of course, there is the one south american tribe that genuinely seems to have no numbers in their language...


This comes too close to begging the question. Presumably people find it interesting to know whether or not a certain culture has and uses the concept of X, and use the availability of a word for X as a good heuristic. So, for example, can you express "radio wave" in Latin? Sure, no problem. Language is versatile. Just the other day I was listening to someone talk about TV game shows in Latin. But nonetheless, the Romans had no concept of radio waves, and that affected the way ordinary Romans lived, and the way elite Romans thought about the world. Finding a clumsy, but adequate, way to express "radio wave" in Latin doesn't avoid the fact that the lack of a Latin word for radio wave is a good proxy for an actual lack of a concept.
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I think you'd find that people speaking English knew that people enjoyed watching others suffer before they used the word Schadenfreude. So it's a pretty weak proxy.
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hyperpape wrote:I think you'd find that people speaking English knew that people enjoyed watching others suffer before they used the word Schadenfreude. So it's a pretty weak proxy.

Right, that's getting closer to the appropriate refutation. I was objecting to the argument, not the conclusion. (But note that even so, you'll note that the structure of your argument doesn't really work. Compare, "I think you'll find that people speaking Latin suffered from viral infections. So of course they had a concept of viral infections.")
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Re: Phatic politeness

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I think the very fact that the word "schadenfreude" was borrowed into English (and is now understood by almost all educated speakers, I would say, even if not commonly used) demonstrates that English speakers were aware of the concept - as well as the fact that there was previously no way of expressing the concept in English which wasn't terrible clumsy. It's an interesting question as to why English never evolved its own word for the concept while German did (and it may indeed have something to do with the concept being "more natural" to German speakers than to English speakers - but it could also be basically random chance), but the very fact that the German word was adopted shows that the concept is one which English speakers understand and find useful. So I'd say your argument in fact points to the opposite conclusion to what you're implying.
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Re: Phatic politeness

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jts wrote:...But nonetheless, the Romans had no concept of radio waves, and that affected the way ordinary Romans lived, and the way elite Romans thought about the world. ...


But the Romans didn't lack knowledge about radio waves because they spoke Latin, they were ignorant about radio waves because they lived ~2000 years ago. Nobody knew about radio waves, and if the Egyptians of the time had discovered the radio wave, it's pretty certain that Latin would soon have had a convenient way of expressing it.

Or maybe you're suggesting that we can deduce, from the lack of a simple expression in Latin for "radio wave", that the Romans had no knowledge of it. Well, maybe, but it seems like there ought to be lots of better ways to come to that conclusion; we know the generalization of that ("people who speak languages lacking words for X lack concept X") is not true. As robinz said, in the case of schadenfreude, the fact that there's no short native English word for it by no means implies that the concept of pleasure at one's enemy's misfortune is absent from the mind of the English speaker. So, I think it's hard to establish anything via a "no word for X" argument that couldn't be established better and more convincingly via other means.

Besides, if you read many of the language log posts in the archive I linked, you'll notice that usually the party claiming "no word for X" is just simply wrong. :)
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Re: Phatic politeness

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If you read German, you can dig into the Geschictliche Grundbegriffe and read some exhaustively researched claims about cultures which lacked certain concepts.

Needless to say, if you encounter such claims in USA Today or on the BBC, skepticism is laudable.
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Re: Phatic politeness

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This may be a bit behind the times, and expectations may have changed. But at one time this sort of story was fairly common:

When a European says something like, "Anytime you're in the area and need a place to stay for a few days, you're welcome to stay at my home," he usually means it, quite sincerely. And an American visitor in Europe might say something similar: "If you're ever in my part of the U.S., etc." The difference is that the American often never expected to see the other person again, and thought no more of it. Until the European showed up at his doorstep a few years later, with very little notice, to take him up on his offer. Naturally, this can lead to a lot of awkwardness, even when the American decides to act as host. The result is that some Europeans feel that Americans do not keep their promises, or do so very unwillingly.

So: Even if you doubt that you'll ever see this person again, don't make such an offer unless you're willing and able to fulfill it. Be ready to offer the person decent accommodation, or if that is too difficult (e.g., because you have a new baby in the house), be ready to put them up at a nearby hotel and pay for them.
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Re: Phatic politeness

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It's way out of fashion now, but 15 years ago or so "phat" was a popular American slang word in some circles, meaning "cool" or "hot". :study: :lol:
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