Here's the my most recent game. I added some comments in it.
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[NZ]SZ[19]KM[0.00]TM[1200]OT[4x40 byo-yomi]
PW[Toge]PB[Penance]WR[1d]BR[1k]DT[2011-07-21]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[B+23.00]
;B[qd]BL[1193.411]
;W[dp]WL[1193.087]
;B[pp]BL[1184.661]
;W[dc]WL[1185.343]
;B[oc]BL[1181.271]
;W[qj]WL[1178.853]
;B[ql]BL[1172.856]
;W[qg]WL[1175.066]
;B[jp]BL[1169.62]
;W[ci]WL[1156.765]LB[hq:A]C[Toge: Perhaps H3 would be more active move.]
;B[fq]BL[1166.366]
;W[dn]WL[1141.12]
;B[gd]BL[1153.461]
;W[id]WL[1114.722]LB[de:A]C[Toge: Should I just play D15 and let black take K16? It feels like black has much faster development in this fuseki.]
;B[de]BL[1137.289]
;W[ee]WL[1105.74]C[Toge: To cut is the intention]
;B[cc]BL[1124.978]
;W[ed]WL[1052.169]
;B[ce]BL[1013.856]
;W[dg]WL[1037.432]
;B[db]BL[1007.965]
;W[eb]WL[1031.571]
;B[dd]BL[1006.663]
;W[ec]WL[1029.712]
;B[kc]BL[993.317]C[Toge: What to do against this kind of move? I made counter-invasion, as the proverb "don't use thickness to make territory" felt appropriate here.]
;W[mc]WL[991.97]
;B[ke]BL[974.809]
;W[ld]WL[984.558]
;B[kd]BL[966.316]
;W[if]WL[963.009]C[Toge: Should I just leave the J16 for aji?]
;B[kg]BL[962.881]
;W[lf]WL[952.394]
;B[le]BL[948.765]
;W[me]WL[950.172]
;B[mf]BL[947.791]
;W[ne]WL[945.92]
;B[mg]BL[946.412]
;W[lh]WL[942.321]
;B[lg]BL[944.926]
;W[jf]WL[940.191]
;B[kf]BL[944.155]
;W[od]WL[904.759]
;B[pd]BL[940.634]
;W[of]WL[881.944]
;B[ic]BL[933.597]
(;W[jd]WL[868.624]LB[hd:A]C[Toge: This move was a misread. H16 instead.]
;B[hc]BL[901.238]
;W[jb]WL[864.273]
;B[jc]BL[898.45]
;W[kb]WL[854.743]
;B[lc]BL[896.778]
;W[lb]WL[852.956]
;B[nd]BL[886.579]
;W[md]WL[846.434]
;B[oe]BL[885.263]
;W[nf]WL[844.429]C[Toge: Time to reflect what happened. I was first in the corner with side support. Black ended up getting the corner territory, but his side group isn't making much territory. White's groups are badly cut up everywhere and there's no territory in the making either. I would say white is behind here.]
;B[cb]BL[877.318]
;W[nq]WL[823.718]TR[fe][ge][he][ef][ff][gf][hf][eg][fg][gg][hg]C[Toge: I have no idea what would be the proper shape to connect all positions in this area.]
;B[gf]BL[875.529]
;W[fg]WL[814.795]
;B[hg]BL[869.075]
;W[ge]WL[805.782]
;B[fe]BL[838.303]
;W[he]WL[801.664]
;B[ff]BL[836.187]
;W[jh]WL[795.508]
;B[ef]BL[834.373]
;W[ih]WL[770.169]
;B[hh]BL[804.229]
;W[qq]WL[766.653]
;B[pq]BL[796.807]
;W[qp]WL[763.981]
;B[po]BL[793.786]
;W[pr]WL[761.29]
;B[or]BL[793.049]
;W[qr]WL[760.35]
;B[oq]BL[792.17]
;W[qn]WL[759.544]
;B[np]BL[789.279]
;W[pm]WL[754.78]
;B[pf]BL[785.538]
;W[pg]WL[736.79]
;B[dr]BL[779.079]
;W[cq]WL[723.21]
;B[hp]BL[777.371]
;W[ib]WL[651.82]
;B[hb]BL[775.467]
;W[ha]WL[650.154]
;B[ga]BL[773.675]
;W[ia]WL[649.12]
;B[gb]BL[771.412]
;W[nb]WL[634.66]
;B[ob]BL[769.243]
;W[oa]WL[632.355]
;B[pa]BL[768.116]
;W[na]WL[631.441]
;B[qb]BL[767.418]
;W[pl]WL[619.803]
;B[dk]BL[746.18]
;W[ck]WL[612.75]
;B[cl]BL[744.301]
;W[dl]WL[611.391]
;B[el]BL[704.172]
;W[dm]WL[608.34]
;B[cj]BL[702.209]
;W[bk]WL[606.52]
;B[dj]BL[697.948]
;W[bj]WL[604.907]
;B[di]BL[697.147]
;W[ch]WL[603.042]
;B[eg]BL[691.133]
;W[ij]WL[597.326]
;B[il]BL[681.012]
;W[ni]WL[584.293]
;B[kh]BL[678.23]
;W[ki]WL[581.867]
;B[li]BL[675.475]
;W[kj]WL[578.972]
;B[lj]BL[669.363]
;W[kk]WL[576.707]
;B[km]BL[660.551]
;W[lk]WL[574.974]
;B[mh]BL[658.095]
;W[mj]WL[564.277]
;B[ml]BL[652.935]
;W[mk]WL[561.802]
;B[nn]BL[650.153]TR[il][ml][km][nn][po][hp][jp][np][pp][fq][oq][pq][dr][or]C[Toge: What to do about this kind of framework?]
;W[mm]WL[552.143]
;B[mn]BL[647.532]
;W[fp]WL[529.668]
;B[gp]BL[643.463]
;W[eq]WL[528.071]
;B[er]BL[636.647]
;W[dh]WL[518.662]
;B[eh]BL[599.895]
;W[cr]WL[512.163]
;B[fo]BL[597.101]
;W[os]WL[508.58]
;B[ns]BL[593.504]
;W[ps]WL[507.6]
;B[mq]BL[585.334]
;W[fn]WL[488.156]
;B[ep]BL[579.731]
;W[fm]WL[479.246]
;B[dq]BL[536.408]
;W[do]WL[465.127]
;B[cs]BL[534.096]
;W[bs]WL[457.136]
;B[ds]BL[531.275]
;W[ar]WL[448.644]
;B[qo]BL[530.139]
;W[ro]WL[446.067]
;B[pn]BL[525.656]
;W[qm]WL[437.86]
;B[qf]BL[522.222]
;W[rg]WL[434.654]
;B[rf]BL[519.024]
;W[sf]WL[433.746]
;B[se]BL[516.792]
;W[sg]WL[432.936]
;B[re]BL[515.895]
;W[fj]WL[430.536]
;B[ei]BL[509.403]
;W[bf]WL[419.257]
;B[be]BL[505.687]
;W[in]WL[396.644]
;B[hm]BL[434.056]
;W[hn]WL[346.315]
;B[gk]BL[281.896]
;W[gm]WL[337.728]
;B[hj]BL[264.981]
;W[jo]WL[304.746]
;B[ko]BL[263.126]
;W[ip]WL[302.28]
;B[iq]BL[261.704]
;W[io]WL[300.508]
;B[kp]BL[258.798]
;W[nl]WL[258.734]
;B[bg]BL[239.55]
;W[bh]WL[249.942]
;B[cf]BL[238.003]
;W[ik]WL[212.015]
;B[hk]BL[117.395]
;W[fk]WL[161.806]
;B[fl]BL[113.666]
;W[gl]WL[160.541]
;B[ek]BL[112.46]
;W[hl]WL[131.835]
;B[ii]BL[110.144]
;W[ji]WL[129.622]
;B[hi]BL[109.359]
;W[jm]WL[122.124]
;B[nh]BL[107.288]
;W[oh]WL[120.149]
;B[lm]BL[70.836]
;W[ll]WL[115.823]
;B[kl]BL[69.673]
;W[jl]WL[113.497]
;B[ng]BL[41.624]
;W[og]WL[75.697]
;B[ah]BL[38.442]
;W[ai]WL[71.005]
;B[ag]BL[35.88]
;W[kn]WL[48.598]
;B[ln]BL[33.955]
;W[om]WL[47.09]
;B[cg]BL[15.881]
;W[bl]WL[39.444]
;B[mi]BL[0.56]
;W[on]WL[30.29]
;B[oo]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[go]WL[6.306]
;B[ho]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[eo]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[gn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[nr]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[mr]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[go]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[fp]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[nc]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[od]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[nm]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[em]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[en]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[jn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[je]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[gn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[kn]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[hd]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[hf]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[jn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[go]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[kn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[gn]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[df]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[bi]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[jg]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[ig]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[]BL[40]OB[4]TW[ja][ka][la][ma][mb][ie][ph][qh][rh][sh][oi][pi][qi][ri][si][aj][jj][nj][oj][pj][rj][sj][ak][jk][nk][ok][pk][qk][rk][sk][al][cl][il][ml][ol][ql][rl][sl][am][bm][cm][hm][im][rm][sm][an][bn][cn][rn][sn][ao][bo][co][so][ap][bp][cp][rp][sp][aq][bq][rq][sq][br][rr][sr][as][qs][rs][ss]TB[aa][ba][ca][da][ea][fa][qa][ra][sa][ab][bb][eb][fb][pb][rb][sb][ac][bc][dc][ec][fc][gc][pc][qc][rc][sc][ad][bd][cd][ed][fd][rd][sd][ae][ee][pe][qe][af][bf][lf][fg][gg][fh][gh][lh][fi][gi][ej][fj][gj][fk][lo][mo][no][lp][mp][op][eq][gq][hq][jq][kq][lq][nq][fr][gr][hr][ir][jr][kr][lr][nr][es][fs][gs][hs][is][js][ks][ls][ms])
(;W[hd]
;B[hc]
;W[gc]C[Toge: Expecting this.]))
RU[NZ]SZ[19]KM[0.00]TM[1200]OT[4x40 byo-yomi]
PW[Toge]PB[Penance]WR[1d]BR[1k]DT[2011-07-21]PC[The KGS Go Server at http://www.gokgs.com/]RE[B+23.00]
;B[qd]BL[1193.411]
;W[dp]WL[1193.087]
;B[pp]BL[1184.661]
;W[dc]WL[1185.343]
;B[oc]BL[1181.271]
;W[qj]WL[1178.853]
;B[ql]BL[1172.856]
;W[qg]WL[1175.066]
;B[jp]BL[1169.62]
;W[ci]WL[1156.765]LB[hq:A]C[Toge: Perhaps H3 would be more active move.]
;B[fq]BL[1166.366]
;W[dn]WL[1141.12]
;B[gd]BL[1153.461]
;W[id]WL[1114.722]LB[de:A]C[Toge: Should I just play D15 and let black take K16? It feels like black has much faster development in this fuseki.]
;B[de]BL[1137.289]
;W[ee]WL[1105.74]C[Toge: To cut is the intention]
;B[cc]BL[1124.978]
;W[ed]WL[1052.169]
;B[ce]BL[1013.856]
;W[dg]WL[1037.432]
;B[db]BL[1007.965]
;W[eb]WL[1031.571]
;B[dd]BL[1006.663]
;W[ec]WL[1029.712]
;B[kc]BL[993.317]C[Toge: What to do against this kind of move? I made counter-invasion, as the proverb "don't use thickness to make territory" felt appropriate here.]
;W[mc]WL[991.97]
;B[ke]BL[974.809]
;W[ld]WL[984.558]
;B[kd]BL[966.316]
;W[if]WL[963.009]C[Toge: Should I just leave the J16 for aji?]
;B[kg]BL[962.881]
;W[lf]WL[952.394]
;B[le]BL[948.765]
;W[me]WL[950.172]
;B[mf]BL[947.791]
;W[ne]WL[945.92]
;B[mg]BL[946.412]
;W[lh]WL[942.321]
;B[lg]BL[944.926]
;W[jf]WL[940.191]
;B[kf]BL[944.155]
;W[od]WL[904.759]
;B[pd]BL[940.634]
;W[of]WL[881.944]
;B[ic]BL[933.597]
(;W[jd]WL[868.624]LB[hd:A]C[Toge: This move was a misread. H16 instead.]
;B[hc]BL[901.238]
;W[jb]WL[864.273]
;B[jc]BL[898.45]
;W[kb]WL[854.743]
;B[lc]BL[896.778]
;W[lb]WL[852.956]
;B[nd]BL[886.579]
;W[md]WL[846.434]
;B[oe]BL[885.263]
;W[nf]WL[844.429]C[Toge: Time to reflect what happened. I was first in the corner with side support. Black ended up getting the corner territory, but his side group isn't making much territory. White's groups are badly cut up everywhere and there's no territory in the making either. I would say white is behind here.]
;B[cb]BL[877.318]
;W[nq]WL[823.718]TR[fe][ge][he][ef][ff][gf][hf][eg][fg][gg][hg]C[Toge: I have no idea what would be the proper shape to connect all positions in this area.]
;B[gf]BL[875.529]
;W[fg]WL[814.795]
;B[hg]BL[869.075]
;W[ge]WL[805.782]
;B[fe]BL[838.303]
;W[he]WL[801.664]
;B[ff]BL[836.187]
;W[jh]WL[795.508]
;B[ef]BL[834.373]
;W[ih]WL[770.169]
;B[hh]BL[804.229]
;W[qq]WL[766.653]
;B[pq]BL[796.807]
;W[qp]WL[763.981]
;B[po]BL[793.786]
;W[pr]WL[761.29]
;B[or]BL[793.049]
;W[qr]WL[760.35]
;B[oq]BL[792.17]
;W[qn]WL[759.544]
;B[np]BL[789.279]
;W[pm]WL[754.78]
;B[pf]BL[785.538]
;W[pg]WL[736.79]
;B[dr]BL[779.079]
;W[cq]WL[723.21]
;B[hp]BL[777.371]
;W[ib]WL[651.82]
;B[hb]BL[775.467]
;W[ha]WL[650.154]
;B[ga]BL[773.675]
;W[ia]WL[649.12]
;B[gb]BL[771.412]
;W[nb]WL[634.66]
;B[ob]BL[769.243]
;W[oa]WL[632.355]
;B[pa]BL[768.116]
;W[na]WL[631.441]
;B[qb]BL[767.418]
;W[pl]WL[619.803]
;B[dk]BL[746.18]
;W[ck]WL[612.75]
;B[cl]BL[744.301]
;W[dl]WL[611.391]
;B[el]BL[704.172]
;W[dm]WL[608.34]
;B[cj]BL[702.209]
;W[bk]WL[606.52]
;B[dj]BL[697.948]
;W[bj]WL[604.907]
;B[di]BL[697.147]
;W[ch]WL[603.042]
;B[eg]BL[691.133]
;W[ij]WL[597.326]
;B[il]BL[681.012]
;W[ni]WL[584.293]
;B[kh]BL[678.23]
;W[ki]WL[581.867]
;B[li]BL[675.475]
;W[kj]WL[578.972]
;B[lj]BL[669.363]
;W[kk]WL[576.707]
;B[km]BL[660.551]
;W[lk]WL[574.974]
;B[mh]BL[658.095]
;W[mj]WL[564.277]
;B[ml]BL[652.935]
;W[mk]WL[561.802]
;B[nn]BL[650.153]TR[il][ml][km][nn][po][hp][jp][np][pp][fq][oq][pq][dr][or]C[Toge: What to do about this kind of framework?]
;W[mm]WL[552.143]
;B[mn]BL[647.532]
;W[fp]WL[529.668]
;B[gp]BL[643.463]
;W[eq]WL[528.071]
;B[er]BL[636.647]
;W[dh]WL[518.662]
;B[eh]BL[599.895]
;W[cr]WL[512.163]
;B[fo]BL[597.101]
;W[os]WL[508.58]
;B[ns]BL[593.504]
;W[ps]WL[507.6]
;B[mq]BL[585.334]
;W[fn]WL[488.156]
;B[ep]BL[579.731]
;W[fm]WL[479.246]
;B[dq]BL[536.408]
;W[do]WL[465.127]
;B[cs]BL[534.096]
;W[bs]WL[457.136]
;B[ds]BL[531.275]
;W[ar]WL[448.644]
;B[qo]BL[530.139]
;W[ro]WL[446.067]
;B[pn]BL[525.656]
;W[qm]WL[437.86]
;B[qf]BL[522.222]
;W[rg]WL[434.654]
;B[rf]BL[519.024]
;W[sf]WL[433.746]
;B[se]BL[516.792]
;W[sg]WL[432.936]
;B[re]BL[515.895]
;W[fj]WL[430.536]
;B[ei]BL[509.403]
;W[bf]WL[419.257]
;B[be]BL[505.687]
;W[in]WL[396.644]
;B[hm]BL[434.056]
;W[hn]WL[346.315]
;B[gk]BL[281.896]
;W[gm]WL[337.728]
;B[hj]BL[264.981]
;W[jo]WL[304.746]
;B[ko]BL[263.126]
;W[ip]WL[302.28]
;B[iq]BL[261.704]
;W[io]WL[300.508]
;B[kp]BL[258.798]
;W[nl]WL[258.734]
;B[bg]BL[239.55]
;W[bh]WL[249.942]
;B[cf]BL[238.003]
;W[ik]WL[212.015]
;B[hk]BL[117.395]
;W[fk]WL[161.806]
;B[fl]BL[113.666]
;W[gl]WL[160.541]
;B[ek]BL[112.46]
;W[hl]WL[131.835]
;B[ii]BL[110.144]
;W[ji]WL[129.622]
;B[hi]BL[109.359]
;W[jm]WL[122.124]
;B[nh]BL[107.288]
;W[oh]WL[120.149]
;B[lm]BL[70.836]
;W[ll]WL[115.823]
;B[kl]BL[69.673]
;W[jl]WL[113.497]
;B[ng]BL[41.624]
;W[og]WL[75.697]
;B[ah]BL[38.442]
;W[ai]WL[71.005]
;B[ag]BL[35.88]
;W[kn]WL[48.598]
;B[ln]BL[33.955]
;W[om]WL[47.09]
;B[cg]BL[15.881]
;W[bl]WL[39.444]
;B[mi]BL[0.56]
;W[on]WL[30.29]
;B[oo]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[go]WL[6.306]
;B[ho]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[eo]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[gn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[nr]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[mr]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[go]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[fp]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[nc]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[od]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[nm]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[em]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[en]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[jn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[je]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[gn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[kn]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[hd]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[hf]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[jn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[go]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[kn]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[gn]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[df]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[bi]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[jg]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[ig]BL[40]OB[4]
;W[]WL[40]OW[4]
;B[]BL[40]OB[4]TW[ja][ka][la][ma][mb][ie][ph][qh][rh][sh][oi][pi][qi][ri][si][aj][jj][nj][oj][pj][rj][sj][ak][jk][nk][ok][pk][qk][rk][sk][al][cl][il][ml][ol][ql][rl][sl][am][bm][cm][hm][im][rm][sm][an][bn][cn][rn][sn][ao][bo][co][so][ap][bp][cp][rp][sp][aq][bq][rq][sq][br][rr][sr][as][qs][rs][ss]TB[aa][ba][ca][da][ea][fa][qa][ra][sa][ab][bb][eb][fb][pb][rb][sb][ac][bc][dc][ec][fc][gc][pc][qc][rc][sc][ad][bd][cd][ed][fd][rd][sd][ae][ee][pe][qe][af][bf][lf][fg][gg][fh][gh][lh][fi][gi][ej][fj][gj][fk][lo][mo][no][lp][mp][op][eq][gq][hq][jq][kq][lq][nq][fr][gr][hr][ir][jr][kr][lr][nr][es][fs][gs][hs][is][js][ks][ls][ms])
(;W[hd]
;B[hc]
;W[gc]C[Toge: Expecting this.]))
...K15 ? It cuts black's threatened connect-under while looking at growing your left. I wouldn't not play it because it looks like the expected move. After all, top in the game did seem a source of grief.