Finally had time to go over it:
(;GM[1]FF[4]CA[UTF-8]AP[CGoban:3]ST[2]
RU[Japanese]SZ[19]KM[6.50]
PW[Rafa]PB[Sagara]
;B[pd]
;W[dd]
;B[pp]
;W[dq]
;B[co]LB[do:A]TR[pd][pp]C[Here i thought he would play at "A", since probably the influence he would get would work nice with the right side, i read that in Get Strong at the Opening if i remember correctly.
[Phelan\]: I like your assesment of A here, seems better. Not sure enough of it to definitely say A was better, though.]
;W[dm]
;B[eo]
;W[fp]TR[fp]C[I saw this move in some professional games and also on some Tygem games, i dont really know much about it, so i played to see what happened from there.]
;B[em]
(;W[cf]LB[qf:D][qj:E][dm:1][ip:A][iq:B][nq:C]TR[cf]C[I guess this isn´t the right move, in the game felt right because i thought he didn´t want me to run the (1). When i reviewed the game later A/B seemed better, C/D/E was other options i considered aside "wC14"
[Phelan\]: I would immediately play D6 first, to break the shape, and then run out with something like D9.]
;B[hp]
;W[go]
;B[cq]LB[go:1][bp:2]C[This is another mistake by me i think, i should have played "2" here instead of running
[Phelan\]: Usually access to the center is better than living sealed in, but I'm not quite sure of it in this situation. I wouldn't call your move a mistake, though.]
;W[cr]
;B[dp]
;W[eq]
;B[bq]
(;W[qn]C[k
[Phelan\]: I still want to play D6 before anything else.]
;B[nq]
;W[rp]
;B[qq]
;W[qk]
;B[ho]
;W[gn]
;B[jc]
;W[hn]
;B[in]
(;W[nn]
;B[mo]
;W[dl]C[[Phelan\]: D6 first?]
;B[el]
(;W[ek]LB[dk:A]C[Extending here at A would be probably better.
[Phelan\]: Yes. Be careful of doing this hane if you're not sure of how to handle the cut. After getting a 4 stone group you can safely hane, though.]
;B[dk]
;W[ck]
;B[dj]
;W[cj]
;B[di]
;W[fk]LB[ci:A]C[Again A being probably better choice
[Phelan\]: Yep. It is even more severe here, because it's not a cut, it's a turn.]
;B[fo]
;W[gp]
;B[ci]
;W[bi]
;B[bh]
;W[dn]
;B[fm]
;W[bn]
;B[bj]
;W[bk]
;B[ai]
;W[bo]LB[bm:A]C[A is the shape for life, i believe, but please correct me if i´m wrong
[Phelan\]: Not quite sure if it can still die after A, but it would be much better, yes.]
;B[bl]
;W[al]
;B[cl]
(;W[qc]C[[Phelan\]: This looks too soon, Black gets an ideal wall towards the left. Maybe better to approach from the right?]
;B[pc]
;W[qd]
;B[qe]
;W[re]
;B[rf]
(;W[pb]C[[Phelan\]: R14 seems urgent, at this point.]
;B[ob]
;W[qb]
;B[pe]
;W[ec]LB[rd:A]C[Again another huge mistake by not connecting at A]
;B[rd]
;W[rc]
;B[se]
;W[ra]
;B[sb]
(;W[je]
;B[kd]
;W[ke]
;B[gl]
;W[br]
;B[ar]
;W[ld]LB[hl:B][hq:A]C[A for life, instead of actually worry about black getting more territory, which he already has plenty]
;B[lc]
;W[md]
;B[nc]
;W[ic]
;B[ib]
;W[jb]
;B[kb]
;W[jd]
;B[kc]
;W[mc]
;B[mb]
;W[hb]
;B[ja]
;W[hd]
;B[hq]
;W[gr]
;B[gq]
;W[fq]
;B[hr]
;W[fs]
;B[er]TR[ra][pb][qb][qc][rc][qd][cj][bk][ck][al][dl][dm][bn][dn][bo][eq]C[And another one bites the dust, ])
(;W[nb]C[[Phelan\]: I don't think this works here, but keep this move in mind when you need to live/link up with another group. *End of comments*]))
(;W[qf]
;B[pe]
;W[rg]
;B[rd]
;W[sf]
;B[rc]
;W[qb]
;B[rb]
;W[of]))
(;W[qf]C[[Phelan\]: This extends from your stones, and black's pincer doesn't seem that hard to handle.]
;B[qh]
;W[of]
;B[nd]
;W[pi]))
(;W[dk]
;B[ek]
;W[dj]
;B[ej]
;W[ei]
;B[di]
;W[ci]
;B[dh]
;W[ch]))
(;W[im]C[[Phelan\]: I think you could turn here in sente before reducing from the other side.]))
(;W[dn]))
(;W[dn]
(;B[do]
;W[dk])
(;B[en]
;W[dk]))
(;W[ch]C[[Phelan\]: If you want to play on this side, you can use the D7 stone to extend further, I think]))