Relationships - better off without 'em?

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Relationships?

Who needs 'em!
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21%
Better to have loved and lost...
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I'm happily involved!
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I'm somewhat less than happily involved...
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Women -- better off without -- what?

;)

Edit: You changed the subject on me. :( ;)
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Don't ask. Really ... don't ask. I could write a satirical tragedy about such issues and sell the thing.
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Was planning on settling in with a nice stack of tsumego books tonight. Looks like it'll be beer instead. Cheers!
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I currently like a girl, and she doesn't like me back... :sad:
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My life would be so much easier without women ... but so much more boring, too.

Don't get me wrong, boring can be very good ... but I need some spice in my life sometimes.
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I'm madly in love with my wife, and after four years of marriage, if I had it to do all over again I wouldn't change a thing.
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fwiffo wrote:Was planning on settling in with a nice stack of tsumego books tonight. Looks like it'll be beer instead. Cheers!


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Post by SoDesuNe »

Although I'm happily involved since a couple of years, I think the important thing about love is to never stop searching for it. So I voted for "better to have loved and lost" ^^
In most cases it needs time to find one's soulmate.
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Yesterday my boss threw a big party because of his retirement. Ofc all colleagues, some of his neighbours etc. were invited. His wife is a really kind person but this evening she got me so drunk...

Well after several hours I was totally wasted and called my girlfriend if she could pick me up. Guess what?
Despite the (high) risk that I could vomit into her car she came and picked me up.
If this isnt true love :3

Therefore => We need 'em!
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Having been married for 7 years and then divorced with two kids, I'm hopefully getting married again when I can save up enough money to hold an event to my current fiancee (with another two kids). Hopefully this one won't turn out to prefer women after all :roll:

I envy those that can live happily without feeling like they need love in their life!
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Post by Harleqin »

Helel wrote:
Jonas wrote:If this isnt true love :3


Not really, she probably just didn't want you to spend the night with your boss's wife.


I do not see the contradiction. :geek:
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Helel wrote:
topazg wrote:Having been married for 7 years and then divorced with two kids, I'm hopefully getting married again when I can save up enough money to hold an event to my current fiancee (with another two kids). Hopefully this one won't turn out to prefer women after all :roll:

I envy those that can live happily without feeling like they need love in their life!


As for love, you have two kids, don't they love you? :-?
As for the more physical aspects, well, maybe it's due time for you to start considering castration...


Haha, I have no lack of love in my life, and I don't take any of it for granted - but I also find myself wanting it and wish it wasn't on my list of things I wanted. It would be nice to be able to be happy without the feeling that love is a requirement in there.

My two extra children were not fathered by me, and at some stage later on I'm sure we'll be wanting another together. I suspect a suggestion of castration may go down very badly ;)
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topazg wrote:Haha, I have no lack of love in my life, and I don't take any of it for granted - but I also find myself wanting it and wish it wasn't on my list of things I wanted. It would be nice to be able to be happy without the feeling that love is a requirement in there.

My two extra children were not fathered by me, and at some stage later on I'm sure we'll be wanting another together. I suspect a suggestion of castration may go down very badly ;)



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