Hi Thimblefox,
Game 1:

Your R15 block in your variation is very big.
Possibly the only move. Otherwise B pushes through at R15 -- complete broken shape for W.

B can simply push thorough at R15: classic
Toothpaste.
Or, B can first atari R16 (sente), then tiger's mouth R14 --
even worse than toothpaste shape for W.

R14. Prevent the B atari at the same spot, R14.
It's not about living in the corner --
that's already a wrong direction in your thinking.

vital point, in sente.

,

,

If your first feeling or habit to reply to a 2nd-line hane like

is the descent

, then this is a (common) bad habit.
There are situations where the descent

is correct.
(And maybe this is such a case here.) But

is a bad habit --
B forces you to make good shape
and live, with

.
B does not want to help W like that.

is a common example
of a
bad sente move -- learn to recognize moves like it.
( There is an entirely different, joseki, sequence
starting with

pincer at H17 instead --
W would still take 3-3 at C17, but your next move is
the diagonal-attach at E17 -- you may look it up for reference. )

Very strange... bad habit ? Take!

Yes, N4 better. You don't have to worry about his J9 stone now.

Basic shape problem. Cut at o4: first feeling.

168: Why do you care about 0.5 points when you have moves worth 10 times or more ?

170 Bad shape (hitting yourself on the head;
hane head of two), bad feeling. The local shape is E3.