Fedya wrote:
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Consider this recent game in which I had White:
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[go]$$Wc Moves 8 to 15
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$$ | . . O 6 . . . . . , . . . O . O . . . |
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$$ | . . 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . X . . . |
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I thought

was a good move, since it had a dual purpose of expanding my group in the lower left and putting pressure on the black stone at C14. But I quickly erred in the joseki; apparently I should have played

at

and Black would respond with a cross-cut, leaving me to try to figure out the correct follow-up. In the game, I exacerbated my problems by playing the hane at the head of two stones, D15, which doesn't work.
But I can't help but wonder if the problem really goes back to

, and whether I should have approached from the other side. I know all of you are going to say that you approach from the open side, which here means approaching from my stone at C16, and that you're not going to lose the game with a slightly inferior move on move 8. Look what happened later in the game:
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[go]$$Wc Moves 24 to 32
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$$ | . . X . . . . . . . . . . . . X . . . |
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$$ | . . O 3 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . X . X . . 8 9 . . X . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . 4 1 . 7 5 6 . . . . . . |
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Having screwed up the top left so badly, I needed to attack someplace else, and I decided that I had to prevent Black from getting the entire bottom of the board. The attack doesn't work, however, and I don't see any other way to even try to stop Black. There's no good place on the bottom to play and allow myself a good extension. Just giving up the entire bottom of the board without a fight, however, doesn't seem like a very good strategy. And it all goes back to

, when my play allowed Black to get a pair of extensions on the bottom, leaving me with no place to attack.
Wait a minute! You yourself admitted that you screwed up the upper left with 7 in the original diagram. (Not quite true, your "hane at the head of 2 stones" that left Black peeping at an immediate cut is the problem. That was not a hane, it was nonsense!) So based on your screw up, you decide the original idea was wrong. No! This later rationalization is what is wrong. Your original idea was excellent. Your later misuse of a proverb, "hane at the head of two stones", was incorrect in this situation. Stick with you own thinking and extend it further to those situations where you insist on slavishly following proverbs. Such proverbs have their place, but they don't apply to every case. We all have to think about what the proverb is about and whether it applies to the current game.
Later you invade the bottom. The only thought in your head is "extend". WTF? Your opponent attaches, you stand at 5 below. There is no more basic idea in Go. (OK, you might hane on top of 4, but that's another story) After you stand at 5 your opponent has achieved exactly nothing with 2 and 4! You have strengthened the left side with 3 and can still play the lower left 3-3 invasion after 5. Alternatively White can clamp 4 at "a". Meanwhile the extension or slide into the lower right is still available. But it's not that urgent since even if Black blocks, the 3-3 in the lower right is still open. Black has nothing here.
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[go]$$Wc You want a proverb? Remember 5! "Extend against the attachment!"
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$$ | . . O 3 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
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$$ | . . . X . X . . 5 . . . X . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . a 4 1 . . . . . . . . . . |
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In the game, you answered 4 below with the extension to 5. Black answered at 6. Now look carefully at the board and ask yourself, "Which stone is more important here, 1 or 5?" If your answer is 5, take your book of proverbs and whack yourself on the side of your head until you change your mind.

Black's 2-stone pillar is too strong. The play at 5 kept sente but has almost nothing else to recommend it. Time to extend from 1, leaving 5 as a forcing play. Black's lower left is still weak. If Black strengthens it, you can jump out, having successfully reduced the bottom.
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[go]$$Wc What's important here?
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$$ | . . O 3 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . X . X . . 7 . . . X . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . 4 1 . . 5 6 . . . . . . |
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PS: I just got back from my usual Saturday night drinking session so please excuse my overly robust commentary. You are not alone in your struggles. Sakai Maki 8p did his usual thorough job of kicking my butt in our monthly teaching game this afternoon, once again demonstrating how little of his insight has penetrated my thick skull in the last ten years. Despite that I continue to live in my state of complete denial, where I love playing Go, secure in the knowledge that "real soon now" it will suddenly all make sense!

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Dave Sigaty"Short-lived are both the praiser and the praised, and rememberer and the remembered..."
- Marcus Aurelius; Meditations, VIII 21