Hmm.. I needed to think a lot about this here.. What I was expecting was this joseki, where white first makes the marked exchange:
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[go]$$Wc Captures: B:0 W:0 Move 10
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 6 8 . |
$$ | . . . X . . . . . . 9 . . . . 7 1 2 . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . O 3 X . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Q Y . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . X . . |
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$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . , P . . |
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . , . . . X . , . . . |
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This way I would have sente, he would have nice influence on top with a bit of territory. Although his influence could be in a better position, e.g. when the open side of my komoku was facing it, I think this is still good for white.
Normally I don't like this for black but it seemed okay to me. I think the best thing here for me would be that I have sente + I put a little bit more pressure on

.
I knew this joseki, it's an easy one, but what made me think more deeply is the exchange you do first before you attach underneath the komoku. Why do you do this? This is a very important point. Memorizing joseki is a good thing, because it can help you learn good shapes. But since I only memorized it, I now do not know why you would play this exchange first. So I needed to think.
I came to the conclusion that it should prevent me from jumping. If I jumped when he played the kikashi against my 2-space extension, it would look like this:
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[go]$$Wc Captures: B:0 W:0 Move 10
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b . . |
$$ | . . . X . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 . . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . O , X . . |
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1 5 . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 3 X . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 6 . . |
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$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . c , O . . |
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8 . . |
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . , . . . X . , . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . @ . . . |
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I would not be able to jump here. And I am sure he could get the corner easily with something like 7 or even b. Although I can attack his stone on the right side fiercely now, I don't like this position. It seems that he got too much. And he can still escape with c or the like if I tried to attack it. This seems good, no discussion. But his corner seems also really big. And

is still not dead yet imo.
So actually all he gave me was the opportunity to decide between two options for me.
Jumping, with a follow-up like here:
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[go]$$Wc Captures: B:0 W:0 Move 10
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . X . . . . . . . . . . . . O . . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . O , X 1 . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 2 3 . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . B . X . . |
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$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . , O . . |
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . X . 6 . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . , . . . X . , . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . O . . . |
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Or, jumping, and then him playing the kikashi:
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[go]$$Wc Captures: B:0 W:0 Move 10
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . |
$$ | . . . X . . . . . . . . . . . . O . . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . O , X a . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5 . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . b 1 3 4 . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . B 2 X 6 . |
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$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . , O . . |
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . , . . . X . , . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . O . . . |
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Now this looks a bit better for me. I have techniques around a or I even get some really nice outside moves with b or similiar.
This is the other option, but I thought I would be too low afterwards to attack

. It seemed to slow and soft.
I even thought that he could play something like d first to threaten to connect with @, and then play 4, or even completely omit 4.
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[go]$$Bc Captures: B:0 W:0 Move 10
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$$ | . . . X . . . . . . 4 . . . . 2 O 1 . |
$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . O , X . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 . |
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . d . . X . . |
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$$ | . . . , . . . . . , . . . . . , @ . . |
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$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . X . . . |
$$ | . . . O . . . . . , . . . X . , . . . |
$$ | . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . O . . . |
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$$ ---------------------------------------[/go]
But I think I am not in a position I should be sad about to be in

I hope my explanations are alright. If it is too much, please tell me. Or just say whatever you want about it. Gimme the critcism!
